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I always love the people who are strong enough to try the alternatives and not give up. You are definitely one of them. And you did a good job of collecting information before embarking upon the journey. I did not do the same and I became a victim of the scammers along the way. Thankfully they could not do much damage before my husband came to the rescue and I am now well along with my journey of surrogacy. I hope it ends well.
I wish you the best of luck!
Hello, If you want to try out surrogacy you should go for it. But do proper research before starting any infertility treatment or becoming a part of any program because there are many scammers waiting around the corner just to coax money from you. I have recently read many reviews and comments which are all about these deceptions and I would not want you to waste your time and energy on a lost cause. Surrogacy is a blessing for so many people but these clinics are ruining it for some. There are also some who are doing a very good job of providing the best services and all you need is to choose very carefully. Check the reviews and ratings and ask from the people with past experience. In this way, the chances of getting duped will be minimum. Good luck.
I am so sad to hear that you had to face this unnecessarily. We are living in a selfish world and everyone is on the lookout for their own benefits even if it means exploiting other people’s weaknesses. The clinic has made earning money by hook or by crook their sole objective. The patients’ comfort and satisfaction is nothing to them. The deception and lies for extracting more money from the patients are very common now. I have seen so many people complaining about them and I am wondering how they are still in business. At this rate, they should have been bankrupted long before. I would like you to report them to authorities. I think this is the least we can do to help others avoid these scammers. The awareness and warnings are what we need to shut down these clinics. I hope no one falls victim to them again.
Hello, I hope you are doing good. Life is a set of ups and downs and you can never expect what it is going to dish us out. So now if you want your own baby you can try IVF or surrogacy. It depends on whatever you choose but the basic principle is essentially the same for the both. Your eggs will be fertilized with the sperms from your partner or donor sperms and then the fertilized egg or embryo will be implanted in your womb if you want to carry the baby or in surrogate mothers womb if you choose surrogacy. Since you said you are in good financial position so you can easily afford both. But carrying your own baby is the best way of building the emotional and psychological bond with your baby and I do not know why anyone would want to miss that without any solid reason. Choose wisely!
Hi there, This gives me hope that others will not be duped by the clinics as once I was. It is good that you collected the information about the process and agencies before you started to try them out. I was in a hurry and I chose the first one I came across. And it was a disaster with a capital D. But then I made it my mission to help people who are also on a lookout for good clinics and try to warn them about the scammers. I send the best wishes for your future.
Hello, I am happy that you finally succeeded in your goal. Only a few people reach at the end line without any hurdles or bumps in the way. Your bumps were the failed IUI and IVFs and mine were the scammers in the form of surrogacy agencies. They were nearly able to dupe me but I was helped along the way by my husband and I am very near to my end line. I pray that everything goes smoothly from here onwards. Surrogacy is, indeed, a blessing!
Hi Kelly, How are you doing. Indeed infertility is a big curse and fighting infertility is a tough job for mind as well as body. But thanks to some modern techniques and methods, there is a hope for everyone. Since you asked about adoption vs surrogacy, I will tell you the salient features of both and leave the decision for you to make. It is a game of circumstances. Otherwise, none is better than the other. Adoption is the test of your motherly emotions and selflessness. If you have a heart big enough to hug another baby as your own then go for it. Though the process might prove long, it takes minimum money to adopt a baby. On the other hand, surrogacy is a very expensive procedure but you have a child who is genetically linked to one or both of you. That makes it easier to develop a bond with the baby. Surrogacy journey will also take about a year and a half to complete. Then this option should be considered in the light of society’s view. The ethical and moral issues might make it difficult but if you are ready to brush them off then it will be a great option. The end decision is always yours!
Hello dear, this is a very interesting discussion and I agree with you that love is the strongest bond, much stronger when there are family ties and genetic links, but nonetheless, it is the love for another person that links you to them. And the capacity of the human heart to love is amazing really. But love develops over time and our mind is sometimes not ready to give that time to some baby by adopting it. Rather we go for surrogacy to soothe our minds and ruffled egos. I just wish everyone could think in a pure selfless way for some hours a day only. That alone will make this world a happier place.
Hello Olivia, I love your attitude. It is good to see people trying to bring out more positive and healthy emotions in the others. I am sorry that you had to go through so much trouble but I like it how you did not give up. There is a proper way of doing everything and the shortcuts usually end up in the ditch. Everyone can achieve their dreams if they go through a proper channel. Not only hard work but also smart work is necessary to avoid heartaches along the road. I learned it a bit late in my life after I was duped by L***s clinic. It was the first name I stumbled upon when opting for surrogacy and reading all the positive reviews and ratings, I just went for them. But their nonprofessional behavior was enough for me to ditch them and try a different route. It will bring so much good by sharing your stories here and not only the happy ones but also the sadder ones. So good job there urging everyone to spread awareness!
Hello, I recently read a review about a****s clinic and it also had similar complaints. It seems all these clinics do is to make money at the expense of their patients’ health and emotions. I dont know how they are still in business. Congested place is another thing but unclean environment really sucks. The authorities should take notice of the things before its too late and some serious damage is done.
Hello Alina, I am disappointed to hear about the condition of A****s clinic and i feel sorry that you had to go through that. Normally clinics are not that bad but i think this one is an exception. I dont know how anyone can recommend them if the condition is so bad. I mean the least they can do is provide hygienic and clean environment. The rest is another matter. I realized they have got high ratings but i think its all a sham if what you say is true. With the modern means of communication and technologies it has become difficult to deceive people and all we need to do is to spread awareness so that they could avoid any bad experience. I cant believe anyone would like to visit them after you painted so horrific picture of them. I wish authorities take notice of the and devise a standard plan for the fertility clinics.
Hi there. I hope you are doing good. I felt sad to hear that your friend could not conceive naturally but its good to see that she finally had a successful journey finally. I had a similar problem and despite how hard i tried to get my baby naturally it was all in vain. So after 8 long years of trying, i also went for surrogacy but my first experience with l***s clinic was so frustrating it threatened to weigh me down. They were very nonprofessional in their conduct. Fighting with infertility is hard enough but to cope with these scammers is very difficult. They try to scam those who are already at their weakest.I was very disappointed and depressed but thankfully, I am past it now. Now a days trying once again for a baby via surrogacy. Good luck to all of us.
This is a very interesting discussion. I am a big supporter of surrogacy. Now a days it has become very popular. But only a few people know what it actually entails. It is very important to be guided in the right direction when opting for surrogacy. I had the misfortune of choosing A****s clinic in Ukraine and their conduct was very nonprofessional. I was very disappointed with their unresponsiveness towards all my mails and calls. They wasted so much of my time and i was already very low emotionally during the days. Fighting infertility is difficult enough but to top it with dealing with scammers is draining. I totally hate those people who try to exploit the others weaknesses. So I would say surrogacy has more pros than cons when you know what you are doing.
Hi Jessica. I appreciate your sentiments here. Its great that you are encouraging everyone to stand up to this ever growing problem of infertility and look for alternatives. I also think we should never compromise on our dreams. And a beautiful dream like enjoying parenthood deserves all our efforts.I am happy that you got what you fought for, in the end. I am also looking for any surrogacy clinic after nearly getting scammed by l***s clinic in Ukraine. They were very insensitive. My concerns and worries were of no importance to them. I finally decided to ditch them before it was too late. I dont want to waste any more time. So its good to see posts like this where people provide all the inspiration I need!