Hi, Sammy. Welcome to the group. It is great that you decided join our online family by sharing your story. I know how heart-breaking it must have been for you. Experiencing two losses in a row is surely heart-breaking itself. However, It is great that you understand, at 43, pregnancy, although possible, is usually difficult. I am happy to hear that you understand the difficulties that come with age. I have been TTC for 4 years now, I know it sounds so saddening. But, I am trying to keep myself sane by being positive about it. I also think you have great chances of success this time. I hope so. Regarding positivity, you could not be more right on this one, though. As usual, it is key to stay positive. Anyways, sorry if I had rambled on too much. I wish you the very best of luck. I hope everything will work out for you this time. IVF, can really be effective for you right now. Sending you baby dust, SAmmy.

It seems to me that you do not struggle enough. The only problem in your case is keeping the pregnancy. You had two pregnancy and lost both in a miscarriage. I think that should be the center of everything. Why the miscarriage. I s something wrong with your immune system or something? Or your uterus cannot keep a baby. You have a lot of questions to ask yourself dear. Although there are other alternative that you can follow. But it could have been better if you really knew where the problem lies. Then from there you can focus on finding the solution. Remember you age is also ticking by. So you should hurry all things up. I am not saying like you get pregnant tomorrow. But the earlier you realize yourself the better. Now that you have found a good doctor. It seems the other doctors were not to your standards. Make sure he offers best services. I wish you all the best.

Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby off our own.
I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them.
I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications.
From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
Like i was facing miscarriages every time i conceived.
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb.
Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children.
So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children.
He agreed to my proposal so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
But i’m worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything.
Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her.
But now i don’t have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby.
So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact different clinics for further details.
If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences.

It is good that you never lost hope. I can completely understand how difficult it would have been for you and your husband to undergo such a difficult situation. I am in the same boat of struggle, I have been told that I have a poor ovarian reserve which means I have a very little chance of conceiving through IVF. Therefore, the clinic I am currently visiting has been like a life saviour and have been extremely supportive and have been positive as well. In your condition, it is basically difficult for you to keep the pregnancy. Therefore, what your doctor is suggesting might give you the chance and you should opt for it. Don’t worry things will get better with time. Feel free to ask any more questions and I will always be here for a support.

Hello Sammy. Hope you’re doing well. Your story is really heartbreaking. It tore me up a bit emotionally. You need to remember, whatever happens, you will always have alternative options. I still do not know what exactly went wrong in your case. Maybe the problem is with carrying a child. You are fertile, so there’s definitely no problems there. Age is not on your side. I would suggest you surrogacy. Surrogacy is perfect for you. You wouldn’t have to go through the stress of pregnancy. Which you don’t want to, again, trust me. I’ve had miscarriages too. Do consider it. It’s actually ideal for you.

I can’t help thinking that you don’t battle enough. The main issue for your situation is keeping the pregnancy. You had two pregnancy and lost both in an unnatural birth cycle. I surmise that ought to be the focal point of everything. Why the unsuccessful labour. Is some kind of problem with your insusceptible framework or something? Or on the other hand, your uterus can’t keep an infant. You have a lot of things to ask yourself, dear. In spite of the fact that there are different options that you can take after. Be that as it may, it could have been exceptional in the event that you truly knew where the issue lies. At that point from that point, you can centre around finding the arrangement. the best option is surrogacy to the extent I looked into.

I am shocked to read your story. Fertility does run in your family. See it is fine that you wanna try again. I am glad you have a cooperative doctor now. It is essential to get guidance on the rath path. I hope everything goes in your favor.Personally, I think I might be dangerous to carry a baby. You might be able to get pregnant but carrying it and delivering it is the job. Since you are fertile, you can look up for gestational surrogacy. It means that a surrogate can carry your baby for you.