I know MC can be disheartening and they would affect your life in a bad way. But people have been working on these things. Modern science has made so many advancements that infertile people are able to have their own babies through a process called surrogacy. It is a clean process where a surrogate mother would carry our child for you. Good clinics provide these surrogate mothers. My aunt went for surrogacy and her life changed for the better. She is now a mother of a child which she can call her own. and is happy. I pray for everyone who wishes to have children may succeed.

I believe you and your DH are living a blessed life. Not being able to produce a child can cause problems for you and it becomes difficult as the life without a child can be boring. The thing becomes difficult and in third world countries, the position of women in the family may become weak. I know what you are going through. This difficult time will pass and you will be able to make your life happy. Stay firm and go for surrogacy if you can afford it. It will make things easy for you. Your life will change. I have a live example of my friend whose life had a miraculous turn after she was blessed with a child.

Hello Tiffany. How are you? I hope you’re okay. This is actually my first too. I can relate so much to this. I know what you must be feeling. It’s honestly a really hard spot to be in. I genuinely hope things get better for you.

Once you and your partner have had a fertility evaluation, it’s time to start considering your treatment options. Fertility treatment typically refers to medications that stimulate egg or sperm production, or procedures that involve the handling of eggs, sperm, or embryos. However, treating infertility goes beyond fertility treatments. Infertility treatment can also include surgical interventions, lifestyle changes, weight loss, or treatment of an underlying medical condition. Your infertility treatment plan will depend on the cause or causes behind your infertility, whether the problem is from the woman’s side, the man’s side, both sides, or remains unexplained. Treatments for infertility can range from medications to embryo implantation through assisted reproductive technology (ART). There are treatments that are specifically for men or for women and some that involve both partners. In 85% to 90% of cases, infertility is treated with conventional medical therapies, such as medication or surgery. If fertility treatments are unsuccessful, it is possible to use eggs or sperm donated by a third party or to have another woman carry a fetus.

Hey @OliviaSmith. This is good news that you have opted for surrogacy. I have read so many good new on this forum about surrogacy. I really hope you find a good clinic, who care about their clients. Also, a surrogate who would be taking care of your child like her own.
Surrogacy surely has become very common. It is the need of the time I think. More and more couples are opting for it. It is a very beneficial option. Though, it is tiring and hectic. But all this is a small price to pay for having your own child.
I really hope you find a good clinic. Keep us posted on your journey. Do not lose hope. Stay positive and focused. Love and prayers for you.

Mothers don’t care for their children. It isn’t possible. But parents want their real children back just because of a simple mix-up in the clinic during birth. I mean what is going on. It’s not the fault of the parents who do this. But it is the mistake of the clinic. They should be punished for this. Not the other way around.

I appreciate your post. The family is not defined by our genes. It is built and maintained through love. It is fact, that every parent wants a biological child but if somehow their baby gets a mix-up in the clinic, it is not their fault, it is the carelessness of the clinic. Strict actions should be taken against them. It is really hard for the parents to tell the truth to their child. Once the child is raised by the parents with love then it doesn’t matter that he is their biological child or not. No parent can give back the child after raising for several years. Parenthood requires love, not DNA. Different people have a different point of view. I think one should not tell the child that he does not belong to you genetically. Love is all that matters. This discrimination should be extinct.

Hi dear! I was worried after reading your post. I can understand your situation. Every woman wants to become a mother. But due to infertility, It’s not possible. Infertility breaks all dreams of the couple towards their child. IVF and surrogacy are the best treatments for infertility. Majority of people prefer IVF. But it has less rate of success. Surrogacy is safer than other. Surrogacy is prohibited in many states. But it also legal in some countries of Europe. I think surrogacy is the best option for you. Most of the people want their biological child. Through Surrogacy parent has a biological relationship with their children. Its a great invention of medical science. Good luck in the future.