I wish i had a biological child
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May 12, 2018 at 6:35 am #2038TifannyParticipant
We all know there are many mothers who do not love or care for their own children. The only important thing is the babies soul, it is not about physical similarities or blood. Everything in life is about love. The love you have for your child so why would people think if its not your own egg it is not your child? That child is going to grow in my womb. Share my blood, my cells and I am going to give that child life. So of course it will be my child as it is my choice. Imagine those of you who do already have a child of a doctor told you tomorrow that there had been a mix-up years ago when your child was born. It has only just come to light. Your child is not your biological child and the parents want him or her back and to give you the child they have been raising. Would any parent ever really want this? To give up their 2 year old or 5 year old. Or their teenager because they have just found out the child was mixed up with your biological child at birth?? I can´t imagine any parent would suddenly want the biological child and not the child that they have raised!May 12, 2018 at 7:23 am #2045AnonymousInactive
Every one wants a biological child. But everyone is not able to have a biological child.
I am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own.
I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback.
There are very good clinics regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you.
For now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too.
You should also have a look at BioTexCom clinic.
I contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions.
I suggest you to go for this clinic and atleast you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you.
As they suggested surrogacy option for us.
Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months.
They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later.
But i am worried about somethings also.
But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us.
Positive feedback will be appreciated.May 12, 2018 at 10:45 am #2052AngelicaParticipant
HI. I know what it is like to want a biological child but not being able to conceive. I have diagnosed with infertility 2 years ago that lead to depression. I was a really hard time of my life as I had lost all hopes of becoming a mother. Then I came across surrogacy and I have to tell you that it came to be a blessing. I was able to get an appointment at a clinic in Ukraine. And through that clinic, I was able to get my baby. I recommend you also try surrogacy as it is the only way for people like us to have a child.May 12, 2018 at 11:35 am #2055AkiraParticipant
Surrogacy is prohibited in many states. Like I am from japan there surrogacy is banned. So i had to move to Europe in search of surrogacy. I was infertile due to cancer. But my husband told me not to get worried because he had decided to go through surrogacy to have our kid. So we moved to Europe. Than from Europe we moved to Ukraine.May 12, 2018 at 1:06 pm #2057AnonymousInactive
I can’t get pregnant and i don’t know the reason for it too.
The doctors are also unable to find the reason for this.
I have gone through extensive testings but the doctors are also unable to find the main cause for my infertility.
They can’t tell the main problem.
I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now.
But still i didn’t conceived.
As doctors can’t tell the main cause of my infertility i guess i will go for surrogacy now.
I live in Bulgaria where surrogacy is prohibited.
I heard there are many clinics for infertility treatment in Ukraine.
I read about many clinics there from these forums.
I have found BioTexCom clinic from Ukraine.People talk mostly about this clinic.
I will contact this clinic and will consult them about my problem.
Surrogacy is very popular there so i guess i will also have a baby from surrogacy.May 12, 2018 at 3:26 pm #2076StormiParticipant
If you’re suffering from infertility and thinking about researching national egg donor programs, the good news is, you have a lot of options available to you. Whichever option you choose, you’ll need to visit your local fertility clinic with your partner and participate in a pre-screening process, to discuss your medical history and your expectations. There have been enormous advances in the field of modern fertility. Which mean that you can now safely and comfortably use a donor egg for procreation. While your child won’t share your DNA. You can decide to use your partner’s sperm and select a donor with similar physical traits to yourself. If you’re worried about the child not feeling like yours, don’t. The bond between mother and child begins in the womb. You’ll be carrying your child for nine months. Feeling him grow and kick and even hiccup inside of you. You’ll give birth to him and nurse him. This child would never exist if it weren’t for you. So you’ll never have to feel as if he isn’t yours.May 12, 2018 at 3:37 pm #2080riazoyerParticipant
I know what it is like to want a biological child but not being able to conceive. I have diagnosed with infertility 2 years ago that lead to depression. Surrogacy is prohibited in many states. Like I am from Japan there surrogacy is banned. So I had to move to Europe in search of surrogacy And through that clinic, I was able to get my baby. I recommend you also try surrogacy as it is the only way for people like us to have a child.May 31, 2018 at 6:04 pm #2571ezabelParticipant
This is one of the things that each woman should consider. I hate the thing when someone takes their children for granted. I mean there are some women that do exist in this world who have been struggling all their life to have a baby. To have a life. And similarly, they consider such women with some bad thoughts who are willing to seek help from either IUI, IVF or surrogacy. What you want them to do. Should they live their whole life with that empty feeling? And you get the point absolutely correct. Women’s who are willing to have their biological child often thinks donor eggs to be not that well enough to have a baby. So they could have surrogacy procedure where they could be able to have their biological child. And the other women would carry your baby safe and sound. Each infertile women should seek help from such procedures. And make their life worth living. Cheers to all the ladies who are already having babies through such procedures. Grow your children to be wiser and loving.June 24, 2018 at 9:05 am #3328monikaParticipant
We all have our own opinion on this. For me, I personally think that a child is a child. If you give him/her the same love and respect there is no difference. I have seen people have children through surrogacy and DE and I have also seen people have children through adoption. Others also have children naturally. However, I don’t find any difference between the love and treatment. Kids are all the same they just want to be treated nicely. Therefore, when I came to know that I couldn’t have children naturally I knew I had other options as well and didn’t let myself break.June 24, 2018 at 9:52 am #3331VictoriaParticipant
You are right. A child is a child. However, I guess we can’t really understand the sentiments until we are in that position. I think it’ll be extremely hard to let go of a child that you have spent so much love and care over. It’s what makes me admire surrogate so much too! It’s an amazing job they do. I’ll never be able to understand their emotions.June 24, 2018 at 10:18 am #3333Lauren RhoadesParticipant
Hello Tiffany. How are you? I hope you’re okay. This is actually my first post. I can relate so much to this. I know what you must be feeling. It’s honestly a really hard spot to be in. I genuinely hope things get better for you. I have no doubts that they will. Have you thought about going for surrogacy? Surrogacy is very safe. It works almost certainly. You wouldn’t have to go through the hassle of it. It could really work, you know! Good luck, I hope you decide to go for it.June 24, 2018 at 10:45 am #3335EllenParticipant
I think everyone would have their own views on this topic. It is quite controversial. There are women who do not love the baby because it is not their egg. This is wrong. When the baby is yours you have to look after him. He is yours now. You are their parents. You should not take a step or duty when you are not ready to fulfill it. Even if the egg is not yours, but you share your blood. You help it fertilize in your womb. So, it belongs to you. You need to take care of it. Raise the baby with care. I hope people understand this. Much love to you.June 24, 2018 at 11:42 am #3343Alice BlakeParticipant
Hello there. How are you? I had to move to Ukraine in search of surrogacy And through that clinic, I was able to get my baby. I recommend you also try surrogacy as it is the only way for people like us to have a child. Tale care.June 24, 2018 at 12:36 pm #3350MakiParticipant
Hey, thank you for posting this. I think everyone would like to have their own biological children. However if there is a horrible situation where a mixup ends up happening. Things tend to get really problematic. On one hand there is your biological child, whom you raised in your womb for 9 months, On the other hand, There’s a child you’ve been raising for years. I think it’s the hospital’s job to prevent this problem at all costs. And even if it ends up happening, resolve it quickly. I can only imagine how the parents would react once they find out the actual truth about the situation. Different people would have different reactions.June 24, 2018 at 12:37 pm #3351yusraParticipant
I’m so happy to see your faith retrieve but what about people like us who at a ripe age of 40 and do not have much time. For them don’t you think surrogacy is the option left? As man around me did it and IVF has been tried by us many times and it did not work. The child may be half biologically mine and could be the whole mine if I use my own eggs but to let people of my age know that if IVF doesn’t work we should consider going for surrogacy as the age does not wait.
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