Never give up
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May 9, 2018 at 9:16 am #1985MilanParticipant
I have PCOS. Because of the PCOS I never ovulated. I had countless natural cycles, IUI´s and finally, IVF. Thinking about starting from zero at a clinic in the USA. It was so much more expensive than in Mexico but we just really needed this to work. Our doctor could not find a reason not to get PG since everything was OK. My uterine lining, the embryo quality, etc. The new doctor told us that he would not think the 2 remaining embryos could work if the other 7 did not. We decided not to leave behind these little 2 embryos and give them a chance. I transferred them after 5 months of working out on daily basis. Controlling my hormonal levels with the pill, and adding some supplements to the mix. And exactly at day 15 past transfer, we tested with a HPT and a very dark positive came back. Just went for my first beta and it came at 2,445 which is very high for the weeks I have. So there is the possibility both embryos attached. We were so surprised, so amazed, so thankful. Something we did worked finally.May 10, 2018 at 4:46 am #1987AnonymousInactive
Hey dear, Good to see your post. It is really good that you finally succeed. It was your efforts that make it possible. The only thing is that one should not lose hope. As there is always a way out from your problems. Life is the name of challenges. Just face the challenges with such a strong power that everyone appreciates you. Today, many ladies are facing the problem of infertility. But the thing is that many ladies became disappointing. They just think that they will never be able to become a mother. But the fact is that those who keep strong will get something good in future just like you. And those who lose heart remain empty handed. I myself is considering a clinic for my infertility issue. I am very positive about it. I just hope that everything goes successful for me as well.May 10, 2018 at 2:08 pm #2000kim01Participant
Hey! I am so happy for you. Something really worked for you when you thought this was the end. It’s very hard for a woman to go through such hard time. I had some problem with the uterus and actually, it was uterine polyps. It was so hard for me but I had confidence in me. This problem opens my way towards unnatural ways. Surrogacy was something that gave me my real happiness. Today I am a blessed mother.May 10, 2018 at 2:54 pm #2003milaParticipant
Hello! I am so cheerful for you. Something truly worked for you when you thought this was the end. It’s difficult for a lady to experience such hard time. Some uterine issues made me infertile. I faced infertility for 10 years almost. It was so difficult for me yet I believed in me. This issue opens my way towards unnatural ways. Surrogacy was something that gave me my genuine joy. Today I am an honoured mother.May 10, 2018 at 2:57 pm #2005EllenParticipant
Hey sweetie. It really makes me happy to read such posts. There are people like you who don’t give up no matter what.People like you are the source of encouragement. Life tests us in many ways.It puts us in difficult situations. The champs are those who face all the obstacles with a welcoming smile.I had to go through the same pain. All my hopes were dashed. I was shattered to know the devastating news. I could not conceive. Endometriosis destroyed all my dreams of becoming a mother. I consulted my doctors. Surrogacy was the option which brought happiness back into my life. I did not lose heart. I knew I can and I will. Today, I am a blessed mother of a beautiful princess. Thanks to surrogacy for bringing my joy back.May 10, 2018 at 3:32 pm #2007AkiraParticipant
Its the part of life.I am from Japan.I am also infertile.
We moved to Europe in search of a very good clinic.We didn’t found a good clinic in Europe.We moved to Ukraine than.In Ukraine we found a clinic.It has many good reputation.As i am sharing my direct experience with you all.We found a good surrogate.Now she is pregnant with our two daughters.Soon we will have two daughters.
I guess you should also go for surrogacy.May 10, 2018 at 5:15 pm #2010CatherineParticipant
Dear Braveheart, your post is really inspiring and motivating. Your views can be of great help for many moms who have lost the hope of being moms in the future. This is is the true picture of life. It’s not traveling on the smooth road. It is bumpy and rough. The best way to deal with the issues is to stay committed. and hopeful. The never give up strategy in the life can resolve several issues including infertility. Infertility is no more a major concern anymore. For those who are not able to become a mother in a natural way, there are numerous options available in the world of medical sciences. For those who have got some internal problem the choice of surrogacy is there. They can get the help of a surrogate mom and use her womb or womb or eggs both for the fertilization. The choice of IVF is also another great alternative in the assisted reproduction. It works both in case of the fertility of the men and women. The infertile couples have to visit the doctors. The diagnosis and advice will help them settle for the right decision in their life. The treatment rests in the medical science but the success of any treatment rests on the willingness to look at the positive aspect of life. the most optimistic is the always the winners. This message is for all those who want to enjoy a big change in their lives.May 10, 2018 at 5:36 pm #2011riazoyerParticipant
After both my miscarriages I went through a grieving period and it wasn’t a public process for me. But trying after a miscarriage and having friends and family announce their pregnancy was devastating to me. I totally understand how you feel and extremely grateful to have 2 little girls of my own. It will happen for you, just remember that pregnancy and motherhood isn’t all sunshine and rainbows either. I pray for you and your husband to one day have kids of your own you deserve it.May 12, 2018 at 6:21 am #2034TifannyParticipant
Regular monthly ovulation is a critical event that needs to happen each menstrual cycle in order for a woman to become pregnant. Sadly, ovulatory dysfunction or anovulation happens regularly for many women, making it one of the leading causes of infertility. Women who are unable to conceive should consider increasing their ovulation. Because this is one of the major causes of women’s infertility. Ovulation is a complex process during which a woman’s body goes through several changes in cervical mucus, body temperature and luteinizing hormone. The majority of treatments for female infertility are made in the area of cervical mucus. Cervical mucus represents a very important component of the conception process. Helping the man’s sperm to survive inside a woman’s body until the egg is fertilized. Women who are willing to learn more on how to increase ovulation, should take into account that a diet based on healthy vitamins and minerals is extremely important to increase the quality of their cervical mucus.May 15, 2018 at 3:21 pm #2139AnonymousInactive
Hi! I am so happy for you. The lesson I learned from your experience is “Never lose hope”. It’s difficult for a woman to experience such hard time. I became infertile due to an accident. I was about to give up. But then one of my friends told me about surrogacy treatment. Surrogacy was something that gave me happiness. Today I am a retarded mother.May 29, 2018 at 7:25 am #2478AnonymousInactive
Its sad to hear that you are suffering from infertility. As well as its good that you have succeed in this process. You are not alone in this journey. Many couples suffered from this. But there are other ways to remove this problem. Many clinics provides IVF, surrogacy, and IUI on reasonable price. Ukraine is very good place for these processes. Ukraine is not much expensive. There doctors are very intelligent. Many people has suggested Ukraine. One of my family member has gone there for surrogacy. She has only two fertilized eggs. And still she was able to conceive. And gave the birth to a boy. So next time if you want any of medical process, consult to Ukraine. In Ukraine Biotexcom is one of the best clinics.May 29, 2018 at 5:25 pm #2512monikaParticipant
Hey that is a great news! I am glad you gave last two a chance. IVF treatments are unpredictable and therefore you are never sure when they will work. The new doctor you visited would have probably given an approximate estimate which was incorrect. This really does prove that it doesn’t matter how expensive the doctor is! what really matters is the success rate of that doctor. Also, your own body plays a huge part in this whole process as well. Thank you for posting this positive story. Sometimes a positive post can change your whole day. Today I was feeling a bit below the edge. Thinking about my condition and how far I have come I never thought this would happen. Sometimes we don’t think about the odds but these odds just break us. However, I am still not ready to give up. I have started my process as well. I have made the clinic has a high success rate and is operating legally. Please for us.May 30, 2018 at 7:46 pm #2541chicagoParticipant
Milan congratulation dear for your first beta. I read your whole post and can understand the worst condition that you had faces. A woman who faces such condition is always a warrior. She never gives up. Continues her efforts by hoping that something will happen positively to her. I think she thinks right. She is the only person who bears a lot of pain and sometimes gets disappointed. But we should salute her efforts.May 31, 2018 at 5:02 am #2543Nelly KomParticipant
Reading your post makes me very happy. Congratulations to you! I’m glad you didn’t give up on the 2 embryos left. You’ve been through a tough time. You deserve to be happy now. I hope you have an amazing pregnancy. Lots of love and prayers for you!May 31, 2018 at 9:17 am #2544AnonymousInactive
I am also 43, got married when I was 27.
I guess surrogacy is the only solution to my problem.
A friend has now suggested me to search for some international clinics that do not reside in our country.
You should also visit a surrogacy related clinic.
There are many good clinics for solution regarding miscarriages.
I have recently found one situated in Ukraine.
They have quite a costles package with all the facilities.
I have had many treatments from many experts but they never turn out to work out for me the way I hope them to.
I have tried IUI and IVF but they failed for me many many times.
People have now told me about surrogacy and I am really thinking about going for it.
I just need some guidelines as surrogacy is illegal in the state where I live and I am very scared.
I just need to complete my life and my family before it is too late for me even to try.
I think you should give it a try too because in my view it is quite a suitable procedure for women of our age
I have pregnancy issue and complications from the past 10 years and I still am childless as I have always been.
There must be some way to carry out everything legally, right?
It is very difficult at times to handle the loneliness and the depression but there are always friends and family to make me feel better.
One thing that I am very thankful for is that I never lose hope.
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