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March 23, 2018 at 4:19 pm #1316Jess blingParticipant
I am so happy to read about your new journey. You are lucky that your husband can provide his sperm and the baby will have your genes.While I was researching for surrogacy for my sister, I bumped into many success stories. A live example is that of my own sister. She suffered from 3 miscarriages and after that decided to not TTC again. The couple rather went for surrogacy and today they have a beautiful one-year baby boy. Do share your success story as well. Loads of positivity from my side 🙂
March 24, 2018 at 2:52 am #1323AnonymousInactiveGald that you a supportive husband and you made a wise decision depending on your situation. Indeed, surrogacy has brought joy to many barren couples. OH, and I have opted for surrogacy as I have LOR with low AMH. After trying various failed ART. We decided to try surrogacy. This has been a tough decision but worth every penny if it succeeds. I have not met with surrogate yet, we are planning to fly next month. At this point, I am experiencing a bunch of mixed emotions but this time I am determined to beat the odds;)
After a prolonged grief of barrenness, we have managed to resolve the infertility issues. I am glad, that you have met with the surrogate. And, convinced of gestational surrogacy, because there are still people who don’t consider it wise. Let’s pray that we get our own bundle of joy soon via healthy surrogate mother. One last thing, I would like to know, have you paid the expenses of a surrogate mother yet? or its supposed to be paid after the embryo transfer?
Wish you a successful surrogacy!!March 24, 2018 at 11:04 am #1336CatherineParticipantThis is a really great thing. Matching with a perfect surrogate takes a lot of time. You are lucky that t you are going for surrogacy with a reliable surrogate. Surrogacy is extremely beneficial but still, you have to remember one thing. This is regarding pre-surrogacy documentation. This is very important to save you from post surrogacy problems. I hope you have chosen for the right clinic. As it is only the gestational surrogacy, therefore, you will enjoy the genetic link with the baby. This relation is very important for many mothers. You are lucky that the surrogate will only be the carrier. The rest will come from you and your husband. You will have a lifetime relationship with your surrogate partner. It is a really emotional thing. Remember to regard your surrogate. She is giving you a precious gift.
March 24, 2018 at 4:01 pm #1344monikaParticipantBest of luck to you I hope everything goes smoothly and you surrogate gets pregnant. I too am finding myself in a similar situation. I was diagnosed with poor ovarian reserves with my AMH levels being low and FSH levels being high. However, this was not it, my periods had also been irregular. So altogether I had been facing a lot. I had also tried a Clomid cycle of 500mg which was ever so long. Nothing was really working out. When the doctors had finally told me that I was infertile. I then started my research on assisted conceptions along with my DH. It was at this point when we came to this clinic which had really good reviews. We finally visited them and explained to them our whole situation. On looking at my whole situation they told me that I would have to opt for surrogacy as well. the process seemed different to me however, I am ready to go for it. I think there is nothing that should stop me or my DH. Now that I have researched on it so well I think that a good clinic does really have a major impact.
March 24, 2018 at 5:54 pm #1349hailey johnsonParticipantHello there! I hope you are doing fine. Congratulations, that you are finally going to become a mother. I can totally understand how thrilled you must be. I had longed to become a mother for seven years after marriage. I got my baby boy through surrogacy too. Best of luck. Take care. Cheers!
March 25, 2018 at 12:57 pm #1361NINAParticipantHello dear! I hope you are fine. I would like to tell you that need for you to be depressed in life because of not having a baby. Your problem can be solved with a new process introduced known as surrogacy. You can further know the details from the clinics. There are some best clinics in Ukraine that can help you and I know some people who visited there. I hope this helps you in solving your problem.
March 25, 2018 at 4:28 pm #1368riazoyerParticipantHey. How are you? I loved this post. I’m so happy for you. Congratulations. You know, you are a very lucky girl. This does not happen to everyone. I have a friend who was recently diagnosed with PCOS. She has been trying to conceive for years now. Nothing was happening. No news at all. They started losing hope. Her doctor said the same thing they usually say to the person suffering from PCOS and that is her chances of getting pregnant naturally were very low. As I had my own son through surrogacy, I started doing research and find ways to have a baby with this condition. I came across IVF. During my research, I found reviews and experiences of different people of the clinic they went to for their IVF. Bottom line is that I found out that IVF worked for a lot of people who were suffering from PCOS. So we are considering IVF for her now. Your prayers would be appreciated.
March 30, 2018 at 12:12 pm #1545MonaParticipantHey! I’m sorry to hear about that. I know it’s difficult to deal with infertility. But you are very lucky that your husband supports you. Couples get separate because of this. Thank goodness you’re not among those. Anyway, surrogacy is a great step. You made a wise decision. I hope you become a mom soon. Wish you good luck!
March 30, 2018 at 3:50 pm #1549Joanne SilviaParticipantHello hun. Hope you’re doing well. Really sorry to hear about your problem. But also very glad that you aren’t dispirited by it. It’s highly important to move on with life. Especially when there are more and more methods available. I love your bravery. Keep the faith. IVF is a very complex procedure. It is risky. Although, I know a couple of friends who have had a lot of success with it. They both had a similar problem. One of them has a daughter and the other one is currently going through the procedure. Fingers crossed, it goes well for you, too. Good luck!
March 30, 2018 at 4:45 pm #1552riazoyerParticipantHi! I’d like to share my story with you after my first childbirth i got a uterine tumor. it was benign. they said before it gets worse you’ve to opt for a hysterectomy, for me that was the hardest decision of my life because we were a young couple and just two years after my marriage i had to go through this when i wanted more children. Honestly, i didn’t handle it well. Now i think I could’ve done better i went into depression. I started acting like that’s the end of the world but that’s not so in situations like these you have to be emotionally intelligent. it’s better to get over such situations as quickly as possible. Stress only going to ruin your ability to think about your future. With today’s technology almost everything’s possible, there are many other procedures to have a child surrogacy is one of them. I opted for surrogacy. That was a great experience. Nothing to be afraid of. Much love and support to you.
March 30, 2018 at 5:11 pm #1555riazoyerParticipantHi! I’d like to share my story with you after my first childbirth I got a uterine tumor. it was benign. they said before it gets worse you’ve to opt for a hysterectomy, for me that was the hardest decision of my life because we were a young couple and just two years after my marriage. Now I think I could’ve done better I went into depression. I started acting like that’s the end of the world but that’s not so in situations like these you have to be emotionally intelligent. it’s better to get over such situations as quickly as possible. With today’s technology almost everything’s possible, there are many other procedures to have a child surrogacy is one of them. I opted for surrogacy. That was a great experience. Nothing to be afraid of. Much love and support to you.
March 31, 2018 at 12:59 pm #1578AnonymousInactiveHi @Naomipao, most welcome to the forum. You have come to the very right place and I’m sure that you’ll get a satisfying answer from here. I have also seen many people sharing their experiences and many had to face the issues like this before. Members of this forum are very corporative and will help you in every regard. Before coming towards the point, I would like to tell you that I also have a baby through surrogacy. I really felt sad to read that you cannot conceive naturally. Well, the methods that you have mentioned are quite common among people. Most of the experts recommend IUI if your ovaries are safe. Many clinics are offering surrogacy at an affordable price. one of them is offering unlimited tries of surrogacy. So, instead of looking for some other surrogate mothers, you should go for some organized way. Go to some well-known clinic and have treatment from there. This will work this time. IVF is a more technical method which will to discussed too. Wish you very best of luck!
March 31, 2018 at 4:51 pm #1593NINAParticipantHi there! It is so good to see you on this platform. I hope you are doing good in your life. People now have made a habit of putting their nose into other people’s matters. I know not being able to have your own child can be heartbreaking. It can easily make you a psychotic patient. People have now made their lives hell because of it. These people do not need to make their lives hell. They should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a modern technique of having your own child. I know people who went for it. You should go for it too. There are clinics in Europe that provide the best facility. They have been great and have solved all the issues that were taken to them. I hope people who want to try it have it successfully done. As it would bring back the joy of their lives.
April 1, 2018 at 6:57 pm #1636smash12ParticipantHello! I trust you’re well. I’m sad for your condition. It must be intense. Tragically, life brings us numerous turns. You are on the right track to experiment with surrogacy. It’s what I did. Or on the other hand, IVF is a decent alternative on the off chance that you need to convey the child yourself. I think you’ve settled on the correct decision. I am so content with my experience. It presented to me my infant young lady! I would state look into a ton on this point. It’s ideal in the event that you locate a decent centre. That truly matters.
April 4, 2018 at 6:22 pm #1696AnonymousInactiveHi Naomi, so happy to see your inspiration and bliss towards your future. Also, don’t be perplexed. Everything will work fine. Furthermore, soon you will be the mother of a lovely child. We will anticipate your most recent cycle of IVF. I am sure that you will give us uplifting news soon. Good fortunes to you!
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