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Hey Monika, sorry for your condition. But I really want to help you. I can not see any lady facing such a desperate situation as faced by me. I was also diagnosed infertility five years back. But my infertility is quite different. I am facing double infertility. This is a rare situation in which both male and female are infertile. I was advised by some lady on a forum like this to go for surrogacy. At that moment it seemed to be very strange to me. But then I researched a lot about this procedure. I found Ukraine best for this process. Next month I am going there for my surrogacy. This procedure is relatively cheaper there with maximum positive results. So, I strongly recommend you. I am sure soon I will share my success story on this forum.
Hello Olivia, yes it’s really difficult to conceive naturally at this age. You have had also a history of many miscarriages. So, you have selected the right option. Surrogacy is becoming very common throughout the world. A number of clinics in the world are giving their services with excellent results. I had researched a lot about these clinics. My situation is not so different from you. I am facing double infertility. That means I and my husband both are infertile. Surrogacy is the only option for us. My husband wanted adoption. But I decided surrogacy. Why going for adoption when you can have your own child from a surrogate mother. I have found Ukraine best for this procedure. A number of success stories are associated with a clinic there. I don’t think so that there is any problem with this process. You don’t need to tell your child in future that he is born through this process. Just go through this process without any fears. Good luck.
Sersey, according to my point of view the best option for you is surrogacy. You are 44 years old now. You must not waste further time on other procedures. As you have already wasted time so much on other issues (as you told). At this age, surrogacy is the best option for you. I don’t know about your body condition. But I think you are in the part of the age where you should not take the risk. I am also going to have my surrogacy from Ukraine next month. I think it is the best option for ladies like us who are unable to conceive naturally. Rest is up to you. You have to decide about your future.
Well Elani, it’s really sad. But you seem to be a brave lady as you have shared your story here. Yes, life is sometimes very harsh. Even you don’t know why is all this happening to you. Three years back when I was diagnosed with double infertility I was in the same condition in which you are nowadays. Life seemed to be like hell. I thought that I was the only person who was facing this problem. But then I joined a group of people having the same issue. This condition is very rear. When both the partners are infertile. There someone suggested my surrogacy. My husband wanted adoption. But I convinced him. When you have a better option in the form of surrogacy. Then why going for adoption. Now, next month I am going to Ukraine for my surrogacy. I am quite relaxed and hopeful now. Because the clinic I have selected is one of the best clinics in the world. I am quite sure I will be successful. You also try to find the other ways of getting the most wanted wish of your life. Good luck.
Well, Jules, I faced the same resistance when I first time told my family and friends about my surrogacy. But one thing I must say your family or in-laws cannot understand the situation you are facing. They can not even imagine the loneliness you are facing by not having kids.Surrogacy is your very personal matter. So, no need to involve anyone in this decision. Tell your in-laws, there is nothing illegal in it. Even surrogacy is a blessing for couples like us who are unable to conceive naturally. It’s far better from adoption. In this process, you can have your own baby from a surrogate mother. That child would be of yours, genetically as well as legally. No one else, even the surrogate mother can claim for that baby. I also decided for this process after three years of research. Now, next month going to Ukraine for my surrogacy. I am quite sure it would be successful at first attempt. Having a baby is the right of every woman. Does not matter if that baby comes into this world naturally or through any procedure.
Wow, What an inspirational story. Yes, dear, a woman can do everything. If she can manage a number of companies. She can also overcome her infertility. I don’t know what method you adopted for conceiving. But the result is very beautiful. That is you are pregnant after 7 years of struggle. There may be many reasons for not conceiving. Yes, stress can be the reason. In fact, stress and anxiety are the main factors that keep us away from getting pregnant. The more you are relaxed and happy. The more are the chances of conceiving. This message is for all those ladies who are under deep stress because of their infertility. All the best for your beautiful journey of pregnancy. Have a healthy and beautiful baby. Keep us updated about you. Many hugs for you.
Just relaxed Berta. I know it’s not an easy situation. But getting stressed can increase your infertility level and you can become sick. Listen, there is a solution to every problem here. A number of methods are there. If you can’t conceive naturally then go for these procedures. Like IUI. IVF and nowadays very common surrogacy. So, sit calmly and decide what you should go for. You will be successful soon. All the best.
Hi Missha, you are not alone in this tough journey. I am also going through surrogacy next month. I don’t know where are you having your surrogacy. But I am going to have my surrogacy from Ukraine. Surrogacy there is relatively cheap with maximum positive results. Ukrainian government also supports this process. So, surrogacy is considered to be legal there. As in many countries of the world, it is considered to be illegal. The clinic I have selected there is just perfect. My first visit was just awesome. Being foreigner, accommodation, transportation and food is totally free. All the doctors are highly qualified and experienced. Laboratories are well equipped. I have selected that clinic after three years of research. I will definitely update you further regarding my procedure. All the best.