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  • #7182
    monika
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    Infertility is indeed the worst thing that can ever happen to anyone. I went for surrogacy mainly because I wanted to have a baby that was genetically linked to me. However, it is up to your personal choice. Both surrogacy and adoption, in the end, would cost you almost the same. Surrogacy for me has been an amazing process so far. I will in the future also be able to experience everything along with the surrogate mother. So I am really excited about that as well. Good luck to you.

    #7178
    monika
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    Hey, I hope you are well. I would suggest that you don’t give up. Previously even I was discouraged by my doctors who told me nothing would work out. However, I didn’t let that make me stop. I kept searching until I was able to find myself a good place for my treatment. The clinic I am visiting now has given me soo much of hope. I am looking forward to starting the process with them. From now onwards research properly before taking any step.

    #7177
    monika
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    Hey Kelly, I hope you are doing well. I think you should research about surrogacy and then convince your husband about it. The thing with surrogacy is that there a lot of misconceptions that it comes with. People think that is illegal and shouldn’t be carried out. However, with time things have massively improved. There are clinics who are now operating legally and are doing a wonderful job. When my husband and I decided to opt for surrogacy we even had few concerns, however, with time things did get cleared up. The clinic we decided to visit it was on the basis of how they were functioning ethically. They had a procedure for surrogate mothers as well. They made sure that the mother was fit and had no past illnesses. Also, I read their policy as well and I loved how they were organized. So I think you should talk and educate your husband regarding this. I was also concerned financially however, this clinic offered two packages; standard and VIP. This made it a lot easier for us. Good luck to you.

    #6466
    monika
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    Hey, Serena, I hope you are well. I myself suffer from the poor ovarian reserve. I was diagnosed with low AMH levels and FSH levels. It was a really difficult time for me. The doctors told me that IVF won’t work for me either. He even said that even if it did work the chances of MC were very high. Therefore, the only option I had was surrogacy. I decided to go for it after finding myself a good clinic.

    #6462
    monika
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    Hey Kelly, I hope you are doing well. Infertility is the most difficult journey of anyone’s life. I myself am on the same boat! Therefore, I can understand that this is very hard. However, surrogacy has helped many people fight through infertility. From my personal experience, my advice will be to visit a clinic with a high success rate. Just make sure that the clinic has doctors that are experienced. Apart from that I also read the reviews about the clinic. It is because of this extensive research that I was able to find a good clinic for myself. I hope I was helpful! Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. Just stay positive and strong. If you need any additional information do let me know. Do keep us updated.

    #6297
    monika
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    Hey, Kelly, I hope you are well. When I opted for surrogacy for me financial constraint was a reason why I had to research a lot. The clinic I am currently visiting offers two packages. One is standard and the other is VIP. Both of these are very reasonable. I opted for the standard one and it even included accommodation. I thought that was pretty amazing. We were even invited to visit them for free to see around.

    #6296
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    Hey Amelia, I hope you are doing well. This is truly an amazing news. I hope the results are excellent. The waiting time for the surrogate getting pregnant always involves a lot of mixed feelings. I hope she is pregnant. This is really exciting for everyone. I myself have started the surrogacy process. So far everything is going very smoothly. The clinic is doing everything in the most perfect manner. The surrogate was recently matched to us. This was also done by first making her pass a medical test. This test ensured that she was free of all the diseases. This made the process so much more reliable. Now the next step is the analysis of the sperm. After this step, the embryos will be developed.

    #6094
    monika
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    Hey, it is true how surrogacy has proven to be a highly successful procedure. So many people are now opting for it. I myself after a tough infertility journey have opted for the process. So far everything is going amazing. It is mainly because of the clinic I opted for. They have doctors that make sure everything is being done in the correct manner. From the sperm analysis to the egg retrieval everything was well structured. I hope things remain like this.

    #6086
    monika
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    Hey Amelia, I hope you are well. It is good to know that surrogacy was the best decision you made. It is amazing to see how this procedure has helped so many people out. I think there are a few things that are really important for this process. One of the most important ones is that you research about surrogacy before opting for it. Make sure to visit the country in which it is legal. Secondly, make sure that the clinic you visit is operating at a high success. It is important because the process is expensive and you want to make sure that the clinic is doing well. Reading the review is also extremely important. I am saying all of this from my own personal experience. I started my surrogacy process as well. I made sure that I read the clinic’s policies and read the reviews. After reaching I started my procedure with them. I firmly believe it is because of the research I did that everything is going very systematically. Good luck to all.

    #5892
    monika
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    Thank you Tiffany for this post. I learned so much from this. I believe that surrogacy has proven to be an amazing process for all those who have opted for it. Previously people for years have stayed in ignorance and have not seen the positive side of the process. However, now gradually people are being more acceptable. I am really excited about my own process. My surrogate is also very excited and loving. Good luck to all those who are going to be opting for the process.

    #5887
    monika
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    Oh, this is horrible! I feel so sad for your cousin. I hope she is well. This can be really upsetting. I have lately been reading so many negative comments about this clinic. It is truly upsetting. My suggestion to your cousin would be to not give up. I know this is a really difficult situation to get out of. However, losing hope shouldn’t be an option. She should research properly about a clinic and visit them. Reading the reviews about the clinic is really important. Also, make sure that the clinic has a high success rate. Good luck to her. I hope she is soon able to conceive. Just ask her to remain positive.

    #5499
    monika
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    Hey, I hope you are well. This is really upsetting and worrying. I hope things get better. I have been through a very similar situation. A few months back when I was founding a clinic. I got so excited that I emailed almost every clinic I got to know about. There was this one clinic I remember that replied almost after 1 month. The reply was shocking! Mainly because I had emailed them twice and thrice explaining everything and had also mentioned that it was a matter of urgency. Anyways, the reply was that they asked me about the reason for my infertility. I calmly explained everything again. The next reply was that we are sorry we don’t do surrogacy until the patient has been through 5 IVFs. I was honestly disappointed by this attitude. Anyways, I stopped emailing them. I was able to find a much better clinic who was caring and considerate.

    #5261
    monika
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    Hey, I hope you are well. This is such a bad way of dealing with patients. I have read so many negative comments about them and another clinic. I had a very similar exercise. The clinic’s don’t reply! My matter was a matter of urgency. I had to leave for an important trip. Before leaving had to get the information. However, the clinic didn’t respond to my several emails. Even had called them but the phone would constantly be on engage. I, however, think for surrogacy researching is really important. After several emails, I stopped emailing them and went ahead. Don’t get discouraged! I am sure things will get better. Sending baby dust your way.

    #4979
    monika
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    Hey, I am really sorry to hear about your experiences. I am sure it must have been hard. Infertility is a difficult journey to go through. It is full of ups and downs. When I was diagnosed with a poor ovarian reserve I thought the world had ended for me. However, the key during this procedure is to stay strong! and to never give up! During this rough time, I found this clinic. They were comparatively inexpensive. They offered amazing packages as well. Once we signed up with them they invited us for the first free consultation meeting. This included the accommodation as well. We had an opportunity to meet with the most experienced and professional doctors. Therefore, my suggestion to you would be to visit them. They will be more than willing to help you.

    #4917
    monika
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    Hey, thank you for sharing the information. I think it is a great news! I myself have been visiting them for my process. The clinic is operating at a high success rate. The doctors are also professional. I was invited for the first visit for free. This included the accommodation as well. In this meeting, a lot of my confusions were cleared out. Surrogacy is a lengthy and a complicated procedure. Therefore, you need to have the knowledge about. The doctors made sure that when I went back home I was fully accustomed to the procedure. I really liked the patient-practitioner relation that they established. Only a few have the talent to do. I hope those who are attending this conference are prepared. Good luck to all.

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