Hi there deary. How are you today? I hope that things are fine at your end. I also wsih you had a fantastic day. Your are going through some tough times as of right… I am sorry that this is happening to you. Infertility is the worst. Only those who have faced it can really understand this. I am also sorry for the way that your mother in law treated you. It is unacceptable and she shouldn’t say such things. I know that you are keeping this from your husband in order to protect him… There are thing that are worth to starts fight for dear. What you are going through is precisely one of those things. What I am trying to say is that its not earth it hold it in anymore. God bless you dear and proceed with caution… Do the things that you see fit.

Also, regarding your mother-in-law, that is a typical mother-in-law behavior. I always hear or read stories about how mother-in-laws tend to point the finger at the wife. I know why they might get so protective of their sons. Still, you should encourage your DH to go get spermogram done to see the results. That way, your mother-in-law won’t be pointing the finger at you anymore. I hope that will help you set the record straight once and for all. Also, I hope that your mother-in-law will become supportive. Good luck to you with everything.

You should not worry what your mother in law says about you. It is your husband that married you and not your mother in law. I do understand that most of them do have issues. They tend to make the burden fall on their daughters in law. But that is not good. Because sometimes maybe the problem is even the husband. But they will just try to cover up for their son’s problem. So I hope your husband does not support her too. I do know that she is his mother. But there are something’s that his mother should not talk about. Like your fertility. The decision lies between the two of you. So your mother in law has nothing to add to it. Maybe she said that to mean you are the one with the issues. But even if you are the one with the issues. What with it? Your husband knows that and he still loves you. So just assume her.

1 and a half years trying to conceive is such a short period. Going through infertility you should be expecting such reactions. Like what your mother in law is trying to mean. Do not be harsh on her. Neither do not regret on your side. No one wished to be what they are. We just find ourselves in some situations that we cannot help. So it could be better if you and see a doctor. Know what the problem is. It might turn out that your husband is the one with the issue. Just because no one is going through infertility in his family then he is fine. Infertility is mostly not genetically passed. It mainly depends with the lifestyle and what one eats. So try to live a healthy lifestyle and seek medication. I believe that you will find a solution. But for the time being let no hate from outside affect you. Keep pursuing your happiness and looking fir what is best for you.

Hi! I’m so sorry for your situation. It’s already so difficult with the loss of MC and on top of that inlaws eat at your head. Please don’t take too much stress though. I’m sure you’ll be able to conceive well soon enough. Just keep trying. Try looking into options such as IVF and surrogacy as well. They’ll definitely help you out. Good luck!

hey, listen you are not securing your husband. It’s not a right way. Unfortunately, I have to say that you are insulting him. Good wife considers are those who find a fault in his husband and try to get the cure as soon as possible. I am not taunting you. just giving you a sincere advice. Please go to doctors and consult with him. Try to get himself aware of it.