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Good afternoon! I had my journey finished recently. I’d like to share it in shorts.
I had a tumor and during surgery my womb was removed. My husband and I we tried to conceived before it. After that terrible event we were very upset. Many aspects of life were closed down for us. I was afraid of our divorce. I was happily mistaken. My husband was next to me till the end.
Our journey took place in Ukraine. It’s rather popular destination now. Many people visit Ukraine for having fertility journey. It was several years ago. Now I’m a happy mother of twins. It was literally a safe journey thank God!

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Hello everyone. This topic has to help. There’s nothing to worry for.
I myself have gone through surrogacy. I’m excited. In my opinion this thing is largely the last chance for people like me.
Some can face with misunderstanding in families. It happens because maybe your parents have ancient conveniences. They are outcome of previous age.
These words mustn’t seem rude. I love parents. However, sometimes they are too far from support.
I’ll explain. Our parents who had three or even five children can’t understand your misfortune. Things look so easy for them.
At the same time they are able to complicate really slight business. They say go for adoption! It’s like it’s simply going for shopping. I don’t accept it.
They express their bizarre surprise toward our decision to go deeper into surrogacy. My mom can’t still use mobile phone. What is that talk about?
I was really agreed to use a donor’s egg. But it was unbearable for me to adopt a child. It’s certainly noble.
Sure, it’ll help this lovely little baby to find a family. Okay, but I’m afraid. I craved to participate in his birth.
Even if I’m not able to carry and ovulate I’ll know he is arriving tonight. I’ll be nervously biting my nails. I’ll be looking forward to seeing him soon.
It could be my simple contribution. And that’s essential for me. You said we can have surrogacy with our eggs.
This doesn’t work for everyone. Sometimes clinics can’t give more than 3-4 attempts. It makes sense.
In case the doctor sees you can’t produce eggs well enough for embryos he says to stop. It might save your mutual time. You body isn’t a rubber.
Today the doors of all clinics are open. They are waiting for their clients and patients. The medicine improved its skills thoroughly. I finished my journey. I had to apply for surrogacy after surgery. The doctors removed my womb.
It was tiring and challenging adventure. I don’t want to call it adventure. It was special experience. Many things are now observed from another perspective. It’s like I became wiser. And I like that feeling. As majority of people today I had used Ukrainian direction. There were some doubts. My clinic had to undertake so much to change my view.
I got acquainted with several amazing people. They are from different countries even continents. They are my pen pals now. They were just couples who came to Ukraine for fertility treatment as well. It was interesting and helpful to meet them. Today I know each of them got happy after journey.

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Hi honey! I guess there was nothing extraordinary. I gonna tell in short.
I knew our babies were born. We were overwhelmed with emotions. It was such a huge flow of positive vibes.
I was crying. My husband was jumping on toes. We at once wanted to know how to attend them.
We were instructed all was okay. It was weekend. Thus we missed two days.
Then when it was the first opportunity we went to the hospital. A driver took us from the hotel. There was already an interpreter In the place of meeting.
Our driver passed us to him and we went on. Our kids were born at the big grey from the outside building. It didn’t look friendly.
I was afraid it could be the same inside. In fact it was a little bit lighter than I expected. It was a state hospital.
I suppose my clinic doesn’t co-operate with private ones. It doesn’t make difference. I saw our maternity hospital.
It was rather fine. There was nothing bothering me. It looked clean and neat.
My babies were lying separately from surrogate. She had c-section. I thought she was under care.
We visited our children every day. We spent approximately an hour per day with them. It was so touching.
We took much photo. We always played with their tiny feet and fists. We were allowed to touch them.
In three days we met our surrogate. She was all right. We spoke through interpreter.
Actually I didn’t know what to ask. We’ve not been prepared for such meeting. We forgot to bring presents.
I hope she didn’t get offended. We brought them to our next meeting. So, how was it further?
Of course our babies couldn’t be discharged before the surrogate. It took 6 days in general for her to recover completely. That’s true.
We were discharged together. They got some papers, swapped compliments and we were free. Immediately after we got medical birth certificate we had our babies.
We could go home. As usual the driver in a big buss took us. Our babies were in a car with us.
The next destination was our hotel. Meanwhile day or two after discharge our surrogate went to notary office. She signed up the refusal.
She officially refused from babies. It sounds terrible, hah, no. in fact it’s a regular procedure.
Our surrogate is such a kind one. She is very lovely and cute. I hope it wasn’t too difficult for her.
Perhaps basically that’s all.

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Wondering what it means. If I’m from Spain I want to have surrogacy journey in USA it’s called abroad. Another situation is when I’m from USA and I want to have it here.
Okay, it’s not abroad. But it’s the same as for my Spanish kind of my biography. In this case I’ll be sharing the same important details.
Do you understand what I fancy saying? I meant even if you are from country where surrogacy is allowed it’ll be great to share your experience. Some tips could be really helpful.
In my turn I know couples from the US who had surrogacy in Ukraine. There were pretty rich people among them. I don’t think they intended to save money.
They just found advantage in using Ukrainian option. It really makes some things clear. For me Ukraine became relevant competing destination long ago.
I learned much on it. As well I was happy to see confirmation of this by myself. Yes, I have been to Ukraine.
Besides medical elements you should know some pleasing things about country. There’re many polite and friendly people. They can help you if you explain them your need.
I was quite amazed with their responsiveness. Ukrainians are kindly ready for contact. They love foreigners.
You can meet English speaking guys among youth. Then you’ll surely be protected. He or She will explain you what’s going on around.
Don’t be afraid of trying new. Furthermore, Ukraine isn’t already new for us. I guess this could be positive experience.

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The same feeling I got dear! Hey! I didn’t intent to make anyone cry. It’s coincidence.
I guess my story is rather simple. By the way it’s long and boring. But it’s another face of coin.
My children made my happiness complete. I supposed they would be like lighting in the dark. I was mistaken they are like whole light of Universe.
Even now I have them and continue reading people’s stories. They inspire me anyway. But for what they inspire?
I don’t even know. I have what I needed. My children are my biggest love.
Believe such stories are more than just for infertile. They are like example to follow suit. We know how stubborn infertility warriors can be.
I know it’s kind of impossible to attract other people to such forums. I mean people without problems of fertility. They aren’t interested in that.
But they could find some wisdom here. Most of internet users are careless. They don’t deal with hard problems.
Here they can learn much. The simplest advice not to give up is a common one. It suits everyone.
Perhaps someone who writes a book comes here to find some new experience. I’m not going to have my next journey soon. Anyway I fill my gaps while reading stories on our forums.

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Today as I said I decided to check my post. I even didn’t expect to see answers! That was great.
It’s so pleasant and kind from you. I don’t know why. It really touched me.
My reasonable decision was to respond to each person. I’ll be doing it in detail. For me it plays an essential role.
Sorry if my long post was so long. I apologize for making you bored. It’s just a fragment of my life.
It’s not my fault my life was dedicated to clinics research and finding the best treatment. such things could happen to everybody. I don’t wish it.
More and more frequently I meet people who applied to surrogacy. It’s gladness when they are satisfied. They say it helped us to become parents!
I’m also getting happy. We are like one big family. I mean those who went through this.
It’s cool that you found my story would be helpful for other people. I myself don’t see its use.
It can inspire someone. It can be so because someone wants the same. He or she saw it’s real.
Thus it can be part of their life. I guess it works this way. In such case I’m enjoyed. It’s not just boring story.

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to chicago
Thank you for constructive criticism! I’m really pleased hearing such things. You were bored.
Sure, because my story was boring. I’m also a boring person. Life as a ruled gets filled with boring moments.
Perhaps surrogacy is boring as such. IVF was invented by tiresome ones. Infertility people and particularly women without womb are uninspired.
As for me I love typing. I love thinking my usual way while typing. This way I express my feeling.
I’m honest and open. My respect to patience is huge. I praise people who are ready to hear.
I decided to answer all the replies today. Now you fired me up. I want writing long stuff.
Actually I’m not insulted. I’m having fun. You can evade reading. Instead of it I’ll leave a little conclusion in the end.
So, go ahead. I hope you are doing fine. I don’t ask for suggestions.
I wasn’t meant to bore my viewers. I’m a mother of lovely twins. You can be happy for me.
In short I called everyone to continue even after fall. You should battle for your happiness. It’s how this system works.

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haily@
Surely we often face people’s stories full of disappointment. They do not disappoint me. They likely cause deep sadness. It’s a great mission to browse on Internet sharing wonderful stories. These stories really inspire.
They give hope. I appreciate you were here on my page. You left some words about your own experience. It is already pretty big. Miscarriages are a tragedy. It kills our strength and faith. You seem to be the one who could fight. How are you? How is your boy now? Will you tell him how he was born?
These questions deserve to be separated by independent topic. I guess we all will face difficulty to explain surrogacy details to our sweet children. I believe so.
I’ll most likely tell my children. It’s not a secret. In any case they will find out it on their own if I keep silent.
It was a pretty large time interval between 2009 and today. You perhaps lived through loads of troubles. Hope they made you stronger.
My disease and my struggle with it were my weapon. I don’t know how to explain it. It’s something of Nietzsche’s theory. I mean our losses become our milestones. We remember how it felt. We remember how to get out from that shit.

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@Ema Churchil
That’s more than great! You say my story inspires. Stop kidding me!
Your particular story is a source of inspiration. I swear. I don’t see much power in my own story.
It’s not example of victory. We weren’t the ones going through barrier, breaking blocks to our dream. Anyway the main thing is result.
I just don’t understand why you say unnatural thing. Surrogacy already became a regular thing for those who opt for it. Sometimes it’s the last chance.
It’s a bit unnatural to call last choice as unnatural way. I’m sorry for my boring pause. Sometimes I’m getting confused with my thoughts.
I’m happy for your motherhood. To be parent is a gift. I can’t evaluate it.
This responsibility is so hard and sweet. Thanks god and clinics for that. So, you tried many options and decided on surrogacy?
Do you mean you underwent IVF? It wasn’t helpful and you started considering surrogacy. Am I right dear?
You don’t live in Europe so where are you from? I’m wondering why some people prefer to choose surrogacy clinic in Europe. That’s all right.
You are mommy. I wish your children the strongest health. Do you want to collaborate with your previous clinic?

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@Lika Koni

You are definitely right. In Ukraine you can find many clinics dealing with infertility. I even can’t suggest something objectively.
There’re many worthy facilities. As I mentioned we visited several of them before started. I can say we chose ours because it was the best.
We were just hooked by attention. I like polite people. Everyone loves them.
Perhaps for me it’s a big advantage. I love being treated like VIP when I pay even 10 $. I’m not joking.
More than that when you don’t pay anything so far and they treat you well it’s love. I’m hooked as I said. It works for me.
I also met a couple from Bulgaria. There’s Bulgarian department in my clinic… or stop, maybe it was a part of English one.
I can’t remember. Anyway they had their journey in Ukraine. There are a lot of people from all over.
I saw guys from Argentina, China, and Croatia. We had coffee with couple from Norway. It’s excellent to be surrounded by different people.
The people are different but they are united with the same idea. Get it? It helps you to feel better as well.
It’s essential to find a clinic allowing you to meet other people. You clinic has to be okay with your desire to communicate. It’s a frequent thing to share mutual experience.

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@Emma

Hey, I agree. I completely agree. Perhaps few years ago I stack to another attitude.
Now I have reconsidered my view. Surrogacy is obviously one of the best ways out. It’s a helping hand for millions.
The gift that surrogacy gives us is priceless. I don’t want to add magical nature to medicine. I just wanted to say it really saves lives.
I had my journey finished. My children are growing well. They are active, pooping, farting, and eating formula.
I’d never have them if there wasn’t a surrogacy at all. I’m grateful to everyone who was involved. That’s unbelievable.
You asked. Yeah. Perhaps I had complete provision. I even can’t say what I lacked of.
We had a housemaid preparing food. She also bought meal and cleaned the room. We had a driver who was very helpful.
All medical needs were also provided. Our babies were in a comfort after birth. In addition the clinic gave us a nanny looking after my babies and helping us.
As well very useful was its help at paperwork. They have done the major part of it. I’m happy I was contacting papers less than even expected.
You see surrogacy reached a new level. I actually don’t know how it was a ten years ago. Anyway in case of need you shouldn’t be afraid to try. My wishes and good luck!

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@oliviasmith
I appreciate you shared your story here. That means you left here positive vibes. It’s cool dear!
For me it’s often pleasant to read such stories. You’re such a real warrior. Cancer is a plague haunting people.
I think your main battle is already behind. You could read from my story I’m happy. I’d like to give everybody at least a piece of this feeling.
Surrogacy is exhausting challenge. I guess it’s not scary for you. After such big problems you can reach everything.
We just finished our journey. It could be called success. My small angels are 6 months old.
Exactly you can save you time and contact any professional clinic. It’s comfortable now to do it. We all have huge perspective of choice.
If you already decided on country, it would alleviate the pressure. You’re free to choose. Look at your budget.
Weight it up and go ahead. I think people mustn’t pay too much attention on clinic selection. Today most clinics correspond to world’s high level.
It’s perfect that you mentioned. Your current relationship goes well. It’s a real joy.
Additionally it is a big fat plus to your might. Being together during journey is the most responsible thing. It can be compared to the Art.

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Hello, don’t get sad. Your life seems to begin once again. I hope you’ll see many changes soom.
It’s awesome that your husband is so supportive. I know many stories in which women’s fertility journey was delayed because of break up. Be stronger and keep believing in your goal.
Infertility isn’t the new topic for me. I have lived through many heavy moments within my biography. It’s part of my own experience.
I suffered from infertility. I felt well I had good sexual life. It was Tuesday when my doctor has found big myoma growing in me.
We planned and had difficult treatment. Then doctors decided to carry out surgery. Due to complications during the surgery they had to remove my womb.
This affected my life. I understood I’m not a usual woman. Something making me woman was out.
Such things come to your life. You meet them with different emotions. Then they break everything you loved and relied on.
Surrogacy becomes your reality. You start thinking another way. The list of options you could use is too short.
We weren’t an exception. We started planning surrogacy. Our future children remained our meaning of life.
My husband isn’t a doctor but he works at the hospital. He supplies hospitals with some stuff. He held his own investigation among gynecologists.
The advice was to make inquiries in Ukraine. We didn’t think too long! He took urgent vacation.
As I myself don’t work we bought tickets and flight to Ukraine. We didn’t contact clinics beforehand. So, we visited several ones.
I couldn’t know how many clinics are there. I meant those which deal with Infertility. It took almost three days.
Then we spent one more day thinking and discussing it. We decided, visited the most favorable clinic once again. It was our unplanned initial consultation.
I’m grateful to my clinic’s managers. They were so kind to help us to avoid schedule. The most important is that we’re at home. Our children are six months old.

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Hi Akira! That was nice from you to share your incredible story. I like when people tell their stories in short.
In my turn I can’t do it. Even when I get used to write briefly I become involved and forget about time. No matter actually!
Cancer is perhaps the most terrible things that can happen to us. you must be a brave one. I respect you because you were able to fight against it.
It deserves respect. Also it’s very good you didn’t lose your desire to have babies. You’ll definitely be happy after their birth.
You overcame cancer. That means you were under chemotherapy. You now can’t be stimulated.
What about egg donors in your clinic? I’m wondering where Japan also bans surrogacy or? It’s really developed modern country.
It doesn’t mean anything. Italy and Germany are modern and so on as well. Anyway they prohibited such facilities within their areas.
I’d like to know how you accept it. You sadly lost your ability to carry a baby. It’s really sad and tragic.
How it was to choose a donor? Or you couldn’t select? Was it responsibility of your clinic’s staff? Perhaps I ask too many silly questions. I find it very interesting. I want to develop our thread.
I hope I didn’t offend you. Some of my questions weren’t polite enough. I want you to be really happy with your daughters!

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I think it’s mostly common thing. No, it’s not good to say. It’s rather thing that makes clinic’s status solider.
My clinic arranged a person who meets people in airport. Even considering we knew how to get to them they did it. They also sent a driver who took us to the hotel.
We didn’t have the most expensive package of service. Despite that we felt as very important persons. Our payment for the whole program included our meal and transfers.
It was literally comfortable. You know schedule. I look at your watch then through the window and see a car ready to go.
I don’t know who organizes all this stuff but it easies the life. We also had opportunity to communicate with different people. It was very helpful.
I mean the people which had the same matters. We swap our impressions. After our children were born we got provided with apartment.
It’s lonelier because you live far from others. Anyway you have private housemaid. She prepares delicious food and keeps flat clean.
It was an inconvenient apartment in a big house. We had a park by the yard. It was a wonderful place where we could walk with stroller.
I’d like to add one more compliment. It wasn’t an agency. Our clinic is huge independent organization.
However it made everything needed to solve out paperwork issues. Its coordinators always ran across the city to order some papers. It was so kind from them.

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