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Surrogacy or adoption, this question surprises many IPs. It is difficult to decide. In adoption the parents to be haveno link with the child. In surrogacy at least there is some linkage with the childin the womb of the surrogate. If you can afford some extra bucks then surrogacy can be of real help. The adoption can have legal compications. The surrogacy on the other hand is done after completing all the legislation.
It is great to know that you want to go surrogacy. Surrogacy is becoming really popular. It is not just popular among the infertile but also popular among the IPs and the single parents. A third party or a surrogate holds the baby for the mom intended. Her womb holds the happiness for those who have lost everything. It is the representative of the selflessness of the surrogate.
Thanks Tiffany for sharing this awesome post. I am the lucky one to go for surrogacy soon. I am positive that things will absolutely change for me. I am a TTC for last few years. It was a hard time for me. I felt very bad until I learned about surrogacy. You are right about the legal matters. It is very important to take care of all the contracts under the supervision of the best fertility agency. This can save from the post procedure complications.
It is really sorry to hear about your grief. Nothing is more killing and frustrating for anyone than the pain of being infertile. Infertility is not just the lack of conceiving or becoming parent it is the lack of staying happy. A parent has so many delightful moments. Once a couple enters into a relationship their foremost dream is to have a rainbow in the womb. Dear mom in grief I am able to understand your pain. It is not easy to learn that one is infertile. This deprivation takes away all the pleasant moments. There are number of treatments available for infertility. These treatments are helpful only when the services are provided by the reliable clinics. There are several clinics but choosing the perfect one is not something easy. A clinic must have all the requisites of becoming the right place for the fertility treatment. It must be responsive enough to provide the right information in the right time. Expert professional help is a must too. Sometimes a clkinic has too many professionals but the reliable ones are really very few. A good fertility clinic must answer all the legal queries. It must ensure that the clients get all the legal support well in time. Some times they have to find the surrogates and the donors too. Choice of the right clinic is extremely important for the best treatment.
Yesterday I got a message from my friend in London. She was super excited. Her words told that how she was feeling. Actually she is infertile for years. She is a happily married lady. She is currently facing infertility. Because of being an optimistic lady she looks for the positive side of the life. She decided to fight the infertility. She was planning to go to Biotex. Her dream is coming true. Biotex is bringing their team to London. They are organiing an open house. The dates announced are 18th and 19th of August. They will reach out for the clients here by removing their confusion and misperceptions. My friend can learn about the clinic’s working and performance too. She is feeling great because there would be no need to go to the clinic in person. They can easily get the contract signed on the venue. She is planning to write an email as soon as possible. This will help her get a seat out of the limited seats.
I am really having goosebumps writing this. When I read this great news I was really amazed. It is really great to have such occassions. They are rare moments. They can change the life. These moments can make the lives meaningful. I am taling about nothing else but the open house session by Biotex. This Ukraine based clinic has earned a great reputation as a great fertility clinic. Being far from many places it is not easy to reach it. In order to resolve the concerns of people living in Europe the clinic is coming for this lifetime event. This open house is expected to change the life of many infertile couples. They are coming along with their head of the english department. This will make the things really easy for the people seeking advice on the infertility treatments. This will also help in understanding the working of the clinic too. The clinic will provide the facility of the early diagnosis. Once the visitor gets all the info he is allowed to sign the contract. It is no doubt a great moment. If you are an unlucky infertile then the life is about to change for you. Get yourself registered. If you get any of the limited seats you will be able to enjoy it on 18th and 19th August.
Let me share the thoughts of my friend here. My lovely friend Elsa tried many fertility clinics in Europe. The procedures were too expensive. A relative of hers suggested her to find a clinic in the Eastern Europe. She contacted the clinic named Adonis. In first few emails they sounded very vigilant and dutiful. This trust took them to Adonis. Unfortunately the situation was not as they expected. The staff was not helpful. They had to wait for several days before first check up. It was an extra finanial burden. Elsa was too sad when the doctors were discouraging about her situation. The rates were not as they sent through email. There was a list of the hidden charges too. If any one is planning to go there it is better to stay away from them and look for some better option.
Technology is doing miracles. There are many clinics who are serving the humanity. They are blessing the infertile IPs, single parents and other similar deprived couples. Unfortuately, some clinics are messing up with the cause of extending the services. Instead of serving they are actually making the things worst. A neughbour of mine is fighting infertility at this time. Infertility was not as big a problem as it is the menace created by the clinic they contacted. The couple in my neighbour is a very passionate and brave one. They always take the things very bravely. They learned about the ART. They searched for the clinics and found the one named L***s. They were confident about the treatment. Their hope was conpletely shattered once they wrote the first email. It is now almost a month but they have not received any response. This wait is putting them into an unimaginable fear and distress. I want to share the post in order to save the others from such scam.
So disgusting to learn such thing about a place that claims to be the best. It is to easy to say but too difficult to do it practically. Adonis is doing the same thing. Yiu are not the only sufferer. A friend of mine has experienced the same. Thanks God she didn’t waste money in going there. Her misery started as she contacted them. She wrote them all about her grief. After a year of being TTC after her marriage the couple got the worst news. The husband was not fertile. All their TTC efforts were failed due to his low quality sperms. They were suggested to go IVF with the assistance of the donor. They wanted to go Ukraine. They searched for the clinics there. They agreed on writing to the Adonis for they had some extra ordinary reviews. Unfortunately they waited for a month after theirfirst email. The result was a big zero. They didn’t receive any response. They kept reminding them.
Sometimes the things are not what they appear to be. The reality is always different than the appearance. The same happens with everything in the life. It is sad what has happened with you. Being infertile is something else but suffering disappointment is really very different thing. It is more painful than the infertility itself. Unfortunately you suffered the disappointment at the hands of a clinic. You wanted it to be a miracle maker but the clinic completely changed your vision. It didn’y prove that useful for you. I have heard some more stories about this clinic too. They are not much different either. Many people try contacting the clinic. The response was too slow. They kept the clients waiting for a long time. Even weeks after the first contacts they did not respond. Such clinics can be disouraged by sharing these posts.
Life after a miscarriage becomes too hard. You had to face all this multiple times. Despite all the stress and pain you fought it bravely. The most painful thing is the curse of infertility. It kills quicker than the miscarriages. Thanks to the changing world of technology. It has given great solutions to eveyone facing the challenges of infertility. A number of clinics are serving the needs of the infertile couples. Almost each of them is trying to bring out the best in the life of the IPs deprived of the real happiness. There is a long list of such excellent clinics. Unfortunately you reached out an extremely unreliable clinic. It has been doing the same for many cases. Many deprived couples are suffering undue stress and pain due to their prolonged unresponsivess. It is highly disappointing. I think you need to think about some other clinic instead of wasting the time.
Fertility is a blessing. Getting the baby is the dream. It completes the family. It is the passion of every family. Even the single parents desire to have a blessing. In this dream of having the happiness fertility clinics play a vital role. They make the happiness possible. They make life of the infertile much easier. There are ample opportunities for the infertile to get treated in these clinics. The desperation and the hope of the infertile couples has compelled several people to open the fertility clinics. It has started a rat race. On one hand there is a list of the credible clinics. The other side of the picture shows clinics that are endangering the reputation of the reliable clinics too. Lotus is one such place. It has advertised it too much but the performance is almost nil.
It is not easy to become a surrogate. It is not just related to carrying a baby. A surrogate mother is putting her life in danger as well. Hence, it is very important to learn all the legal matters. The surrogate must remember that she has no right over the child. Legally the child belongs to the biological parents. The surrogate is legally entitled to get some financial compensation.
Surrogacy is a miracle treatment. It brings happiness to the lives of the gloomy and disappointed IPs. It is even helpful for the unisex and the single parents. Despite all its benefits, it has certain limitations. The most critical thing is the legal status of the process. Many states still don’t allow the process of surrogacy. Even if they allow the process is very complicated. There are several legal procedures that have to be completed prior to going for the procedure. These pre-procedure things can save anyone going for surrogacy from unnecessary losses. The foremost legal requirement is the search for the legal status in your country. It is important to find out if the process is allowed or not allowed by the administration. It is very important to clearly identify the parties involved in the procedure. The process requires that all medical screening and tests must be fulfilled. The legal status of the clinic is important to explore. Wishing all the IPs going for surrogacy a smooth journey in the days to come.
It is very important to learn about the procedure. IVF is a technical thing. It often fails when proper decisions are not taken beforehand. Instead of crying over spilled milk it is important that all measures should be taken beforehand. It is essential to learn about the procedure and the risks both. I wish all the IPs going for IVF a very good luck.