https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/members/nel98/activity/ Activity feed for Nelly Kom. Sat, 18 Apr 2026 22:56:16 +0000 https://buddypress.org/?v=11.3.1 en-US 30 hourly 2 f2ee7c8b74e8ce90a55f193548a902ec https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-is-a-gem/#post-6252 Tue, 28 Aug 2018 10:46:22 +0000 Hello, Amelia. I’m doing very well and I hope you’re in good health as well. Infertility sure is a very terrible thing to suffer from. It’s very difficult to see people grieving because of infertility. It is the 21st century and there’s solution to everything now, almost. Thanks to these assisted conception methods that life is easy. IVF and IUI…[Read more]

]]> 6bc2dca02488b0615fb7b91f03752689 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/stay-away-from-such-clinics/#post-6250 Tue, 28 Aug 2018 10:21:03 +0000 Hi there, Amelia. I hope you’re doing good. I’m with you in this awareness campaign, dear. I also don’t want people to be called a victim of such clinics. It is important that couples be careful while choosing a clinic for their infertility treatments. No one deserves to suffer from this terrible disease. All the best to you!

]]> adb6c879564724b06497baa128f3ae9e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-advice/#post-6091 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 17:22:49 +0000 You’re giving a very honest advice, Amelia. Surrogacy is definitely a blessing for the intended parents. When you’ve given up, surrogacy becomes an isle of hope in the sea of infertility. Absolutely no one deserves to suffer when it’s not even their fault. I saw how dreadful the condition of my sister was when she had to accept that she wouldn’t…[Read more]

]]> 25a77adca811414c811f4f337d726eca https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/great-procedure-surrogacy/#post-6082 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 16:59:28 +0000 Hi there. I completely agree with you. Surrogacy is definitely a gift from God saying that now no one has to suffer in the hands of infertility. You can have your own biological baby now. Thanks to modernization for making lives easy of people like me. Also, I’d like to add that the success of the procedure also depends on your choice of clinic.…[Read more]

]]> 15688a8a4403098313de0e8a3081b6a9 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-benefits-on-surrogates/#post-5911 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 15:56:34 +0000 This is such a beautiful post to read. Surrogates all over the world deserve to be appreciated and be respected by all of us. Just to give happiness to some other person or couple, they do the painful thing of delivering a baby. Experiencing pregnancy is undoubtedly a wonderful feeling, but let go of the baby is the hardest part of surrogacy.…[Read more]

]]> 1f1de91d3008aad892bbd38a4b1162bb https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-suggestions/#post-5904 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 15:14:24 +0000 Hey, Angelina. I hope you’re in good health as well. I deeply empathize with you, dear. It’s upsetting to read about your infertility. Heart disease is a very risky problem, I just hope that you get rid of it soon. Well, surrogacy is a great option to opt for. It is an easy procedure to have a baby which is biologically related to you. I’ve heard…[Read more]

]]> adc9cd4e80add47cc7892b1bf8c869f7 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/bad-experience-7/#post-5901 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 15:02:54 +0000 I’m sorry to read about your cousin’s experience. This is so unbelievable. We count on the clinic that it will take care of us and sort out our difficulties. But nowadays, it seems like nobody cares for you genuinely, everything is just about the money. Reading bad experiences of people on different forums is just making me sad and highly…[Read more]

]]> 9b32e4aa1e29a9810e08e8183d93477d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-suggestions-3/#post-5548 Tue, 07 Aug 2018 04:51:11 +0000 Hi there, Betty. It’s nice to meet you. I hope you’re in good health. I’m sorry to know about your situation. Surrogacy is the best solution for you. It is an easy and convenient method to have a child from in the 21st century. Basically, the process goes like that your egg and your husband’s sperm would be taken out and fertilized in a lab. Then,…[Read more]

]]> f4a6f7492b7ca39240ea72d4e4881f56 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/golden-chance/page/2/#post-5488 Fri, 03 Aug 2018 18:28:30 +0000 Hey there. This is great news! I’m actually very excited to meet her. I’ve heard that she belongs to a very well known clinic in Ukraine. The clinic has high success rates. They even guarantee success for their patients. Their packages are very reasonable, which is amazing. I’ve been dealing with infertility for quite a while now. I’ve been…[Read more]

]]> fd30cfff34be712ac1826bfcd4efe39b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/transfer/#post-5077 Sun, 22 Jul 2018 17:15:11 +0000 Hi there, Alina. I’m very well and I hope you’re in good health as well. I’m very sorry to read about your infertility, dear. Surrogacy is the best solution for you. I’m glad you chose surrogacy. I’m sorry to read about your experience with this clinic. I know the clinic you’re talking about. I’ve read and heard many negative reviews about them.…[Read more]

]]> 78284a7dc94190d4ce82c2d309680aa9 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/warning/#post-5013 Fri, 20 Jul 2018 17:48:47 +0000 Oh dear, Emma! I know what happened wasn’t good. But hey? You’re a strong woman. Don’t let some random clinic crush your goal to have a baby. Surrogacy is a beautiful process to have a baby from. It is a process which has high success rates. You won’t get disappointed, dear. Don’t get upset. I’ve been reading a lot of complaints regarding this…[Read more]

]]> acfa795a490b96f5e35f4056261ef338 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/this-clinic-sucks/#post-4840 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 17:07:51 +0000 Hi there, Alsa. I’m very sorry to read about your miscarriages, dear. You’re going through a very tough time, I can understand. I’ve been through this phase so I know how painful it feels. You have to accept this bitter truth, dear. Only then will you able to move on in life. You have to stay positive. Assisted conception will definitely be useful…[Read more]

]]> 3a252137c2daf9c7e80434656bd4c54f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/my-journey/page/2/#post-4557 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 04:06:12 +0000 Hi there, Alsa. I’m very well and I hope you’re doing fine as well. I’m very sorry to read about what happened to you. I deeply empathize with you, dear. I’ve been through this situation so I know how it feels. People say that they understand but no, only that person can understand the pain who has been through it. It’s a terrible feeling. I’m…[Read more]

]]> 67f270364d0ca1a2aa944bfd75f9924f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-experience-2/#post-4556 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 03:58:10 +0000 Well, my family frowns upon surrogacy. They say that it’s better to adopt a child if you can’t conceive. Having a child through unnatural means is not right. So, I didn’t give a damn and didn’t meet them for 9 months. My friends were very supportive. They were like family to me and were there at my tough time. So, that’s my story. I hope you have…[Read more]

]]> d8ffddd898e7dbedb34dd44f5633624f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-and-law/#post-4553 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 03:34:10 +0000 This is a very informative post, Trisha! People planning for surrogacy will find it very helpful. Thank you very much for this information. You’re totally right. Guiding people to do the right thing is essential. Personally, I think that surrogacy should be legalized throughout the world and these issues won’t even arise. Seeing people move to…[Read more]

]]> a54980035350e4cbe33134170072ce49 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/fertility-clinics/#post-4456 Sun, 08 Jul 2018 05:00:23 +0000 I’ve also read many negative reviews about these clinics, Ezabel. This is literally unbelievable. I totally agree with you on this that already people are going through a tough time and then clinics like these hurt them more. One doesn’t contact a clinic if he’s not in need. A clinic is responsible for making the treatment successful for it’s…[Read more]

]]> c4d6ca73c4a0cd6fdfd7b7037733372d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-some-guidance/#post-4455 Sun, 08 Jul 2018 04:53:01 +0000 Hi there, Alsa! I hope you’re feeling any better now. I’m very sorry to read about your miscarriages and then infertility. There isn’t any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. You lost 3 of them, this is literally very upsetting. Infertility is surely a curse and now you’re 43. I’d advise you to go for surrogacy. It is the best…[Read more]

]]> 9e085c7532bf5c10267cc67c540c1fdc https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/blessings-for-ips/page/2/#post-3744 Thu, 28 Jun 2018 17:32:59 +0000 Hi there, Brooklyn! I hope you’re doing great. Can I just say what an amazing post this is? Although this is your opinion, I totally agree with it and stand with you on this. Modernization is really helping people in many ways. These assisted conceptions are doing wonders for infertile people. Before, infertile people used to sit depressed and…[Read more]

]]> d3e8637b71c450e5ad620fab6ff1706d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/living-with-pcos/page/2/#post-3639 Thu, 28 Jun 2018 05:24:20 +0000 This is a very informative post. Many women on this forum will definitely find it useful like I did. PCOS is being very normal in women nowadays. This is deeply upsetting. It’s very hard to live with it. Becoming pregnant is difficult and weight gain is so frustrating. Benefits do outweigh the costs, loved these words!

]]> 8811597b8e044f445e69d393a4dc890b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/update/page/3/#post-3638 Thu, 28 Jun 2018 05:18:58 +0000 Hi there, Felicia! I’m doing great and I hope you’re doing fine as well. I’m sorry to read about your friend’s infertility. Women with PCOS face difficulties in getting pregnant naturally. Many of my relatives also had complications in getting pregnant with PCOS. I’m happy to see that she’s opting for an IVF treatment. IVF does wonders for women…[Read more]

]]> 8c60379dc260ff12e7ea797d07582ea7 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-suggestions/#post-3430 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 03:49:56 +0000 Hi there. I’m sorry to read about your infertility, dear. You’re not alone in this, I’m with you. Infertility is the most terrible thing a person has to suffer from. It is very common nowadays which is very upsetting. Seeing people having a hard time accepting this is literally very sad. 10 years is a very long time. You’ve waited too long for…[Read more]

]]> d0e5498162e9d8bbfc1890fd2d9b1782 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/my-ttc/#post-3429 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 03:26:34 +0000 I can feel your pain, dear. Unexplained infertility is literally the worst. 10 years is a very long time. I’m glad that you’re going for surrogacy. It is the best option for you to go for. I hope everything turns out to be good for you. All the best!

]]> 28e5b62b35d9f283004536534a13a3b4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-mc-ttc/#post-3428 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 03:22:41 +0000 I’m very sorry to read about your complicated life, dear. You seem hopeful to me, and that’s amazing. A miscarriage is the worst thing a person can ever suffer from. There isn’t any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. Sometimes life tests us in very terrible ways. Always remember that everything happens for a reason and there’s…[Read more]

]]> aa6cf042d237cc19ecda73a819a52bfb https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/benefits-of-becoming-a-surrogate/page/2/#post-3315 Sun, 24 Jun 2018 04:49:08 +0000 I feel really good after reading this post. I’m glad someone posted this. Surrogates definitely deserve to be appreciated and be respected by all of us. They do a self-less act just to give happiness to others. Giving birth isn’t an easy thing to do. I’m happy to see that people do recognize their importance. Cheers to surrogacy!

]]> c6fe10933b68ad77447244c0336b7a36 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/choose-wisely/#post-3314 Sun, 24 Jun 2018 04:44:51 +0000 Hello there! I’m doing fine and I hope you’re doing great. I totally stand with you, mate. Infertility is a very terrible thing. Watching people having a hard time accepting it, is very hurtful. It leads some people into serious depression. With it being so common nowadays, assisted conceptions are really making the lives easier. And I think…[Read more]

]]> 315b08838f4217b56dda58d4ea134a9b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/tell-us-about-your-ivf/page/2/#post-3213 Fri, 22 Jun 2018 02:03:13 +0000 Hey there, Felicia! I hope you’re doing good. According to me, IVF has really high success rates. Provided that a good clinic is chosen for the process. This is very essential. My best friend has PCOS, which makes conceiving difficult for her. She used to stay very upset and was losing contact with our married friends who have children. I…[Read more]

]]> d295fffd6f144797d927f242e7a3f7de https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/when-to-start-trying-again/#post-3212 Fri, 22 Jun 2018 01:52:48 +0000 Well, after reading the post, I think it’s adorable that you’re thinking of another baby. Dear, there isn’t any perfect gap that should be between children. It just depends upon your will and desire. If you think you guys are ready for another child then why not? Your baby’s in a good age and honestly, a gap of 2 to 3 years between children would…[Read more]

]]> cd997f638689ffc895a7be9288a7c991 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/afraid-to-go-for-surrogacy/page/2/#post-3087 Tue, 19 Jun 2018 22:28:02 +0000 If you can’t carry your own baby, someone else can carry it for you. I’m sorry you have to go through all this. Surrogacy is the perfect solution to your problem. It has been helping people around the world to beat infertility. It surely is expensive, but it is compatible. The choice of the clinic is very essential. You have to research the ones…[Read more]

]]> 8dbe867d0b100fdfb011beed165b737a https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/40-and-pregnant/page/2/#post-3085 Tue, 19 Jun 2018 22:11:55 +0000 Hey there! I was just going through the forum and saw your post. I’m very happy for you, honestly! It’s very rare to find women who become pregnant after the age of 40. I hope everything goes well for you. Take good care of yourself, dear. All the best!

]]> 2bca3eae361bd0f4dc6122676f7de19d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/second-baby-maybe/page/2/#post-2815 Sat, 09 Jun 2018 01:39:49 +0000 Well, sorry about your infertility first of all. I’m glad you chose surrogacy. If you want another child so why confused? Children are a beautiful gift of God. They complete the family. You should definitely go for it! I wish you luck and happiness!

]]> f430b1b6a784c03f868cc0cda7525803 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ivf-risks/page/2/#post-2814 Sat, 09 Jun 2018 01:36:02 +0000 This is a very informative post. A lot of women will find it very useful. I agree with you on most of the points there. It is surely an expensive and a painful process. But once successful, the pain and the money, all are worth it. When an infertile woman becomes pregnant with the help of IVF, it merely is a miracle for her. Despite IVF being a…[Read more]

]]> 70b468fddb694e3f54df45c4362dd796 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/help-a-friend/page/2/#post-2663 Sun, 03 Jun 2018 02:42:36 +0000 It feels so good to know about such generous people around the world. Your friend is an amazing person. Helping someone in need is the best thing ever. Being a surrogate is a beautiful people. She must feel so proud of herself. I think contacting a lawyer is the best idea. Although I think it won’t be much of a hassle. All the best!

]]> 982a9664e54dcd0b948e4c3e66f6ab8b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ttc-and-surrogacy/page/2/#post-2662 Sun, 03 Jun 2018 02:37:22 +0000 Infertility is something I don’t think we deserve. But this is life. And when life throws at you like this, you have to fight back. I’m very sorry to know about your complicated life. You’re a strong woman, dear. The time where your husband should’ve supported you the most, he left you. What a coward! I’m glad you found a man who actually cares…[Read more]

]]> 1ba223fc45867be4ea5b7a7369112fb6 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/pregnant-at-44/page/3/#post-2581 Thu, 31 May 2018 18:53:47 +0000 Thank you for such an inspiring post. You’ve motivated a lot of women here. The heartiest congratulations to your friend. It’s very hard to conceive naturally as you age. The quality of eggs starts to decline after 40. But she is strong and healthy enough to take it after 40 as well. My aunt got pregnant naturally at the age of 46. While I faced…[Read more]

]]> 3b581a97385c9a596450e3780178fe3c https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/never-give-up/#post-2543 Thu, 31 May 2018 05:02:08 +0000 Reading your post makes me very happy. Congratulations to you! I’m glad you didn’t give up on the 2 embryos left. You’ve been through a tough time. You deserve to be happy now. I hope you have an amazing pregnancy. Lots of love and prayers for you!

]]> b25ff36e22a1f00dbad85d1e2d2c9e40 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/in-laws-are-not-on-board-with-surrogacy/page/3/#post-2542 Thu, 31 May 2018 04:57:37 +0000 Surrogacy is merely a blessing for the people who can’t have children naturally. We should be thankful for these processes, but people frown upon it. I feel sorry for you. The time where your family should be supportive, they’re not. Don’t worry about them. If you and your husband are happy and satisfied with your decision, then nobody else…[Read more]

]]> 003eaad8d10d452b6b09413ea04a9b58 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/activity/p/2352/ Thu, 31 May 2018 04:47:15 +0000 0