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Hello there dear friend. I hope this finds you well. I think you are doing something honorable. It is great from you. I think that your brother appreciates this a lot. At least he should appreciate it. As a mother I know ehat it feels like to be a parent. Everyone has the right to experience that. Aldo as somebody who is currently battling infertility i know how it feels to have that right taken
You are doing the right thing love. I just hope that it won’t be too hard for you. Dont get too attached to the baby. Aleays keep in mind that youll have to let go at the end. I hope that this is clesr in your head. Again you are doing something noble. God bless yoy!Hi there deary. How are you today? I hope that things are fine at your end. I also wsih you had a fantastic day. Your are going through some tough times as of right… I am sorry that this is happening to you. Infertility is the worst. Only those who have faced it can really understand this. I am also sorry for the way that your mother in law treated you. It is unacceptable and she shouldn’t say such things. I know that you are keeping this from your husband in order to protect him… There are thing that are worth to starts fight for dear. What you are going through is precisely one of those things. What I am trying to say is that its not earth it hold it in anymore. God bless you dear and proceed with caution… Do the things that you see fit.
Breast milk is probably the best milk for the baby. Actaully it is there is no denying this! It’s just that baby formula isn’t bad either. You can do whichever one you feel like doing dear. Don’t stress over the fact that you cannot provide more breastmilk. It is completely fine and your abby will be as healthy as any other. Also mixing baby formula and breastmilk isn’t bad. I used to do it and nothing bad happened to my kid. For the baby formula suggestion a pediatrician can tell you more. They see what the baby needs and tell you more. Back than I used Aptamil most of the time. Then I used some SMA PRO baby formula too. In your case though it might be different. Whatever your baby likes and your doctors suggests. God bless you dear.
This is a very hard thing to do with children. Like I did it once and when i think about it now… Like I cannot make this up… I have no idea how I did. I just remember that he was big enough to understand what shame is. I am talking about my son Hugh. We uset to tell Hugh that he shoud be ashamed, he is a grown up now. He himself wanted to quit the napkins then. I think he was 3 years old. Yeah it took me a long while to decide to get him off the napkins. It was hard for me and for him too. I think that for about 6 months or even more he I used to put napkins at him during night time only. When he was asleep. Because he wasn’t able to detect whether he needed to pee or poo at night. So my advice would be around the time that the baby starts walking and talking… 2 years at least, earlier I don’t think is fit.
Hi there deary. I hope that this find you well love. You see there is a huge possibility that the rashes are from the napkins. This happens to every child. It happened to my son too. I remember that I changed them once because I thought that the ones I had been using werent good enough. I was wrong just after I started using new napkins he started having rashes! So I doubt there is anything else happening to your baby. There is something else like a allergy to something else… Chronologically speaking that doesn’t seem to be the case. You said that the rashes showed up when you started using the other napkins. It is definitely the napkins. Hope you found this helpful.Take good care of yourself and your angel… God bless you dear!
Hey there Ruqaya! This is a bad situation youre in. I am sorry that you are going through this. If only there was anything that I could do… As sad as it is I cannot help much. Maybe what you need is to consult a psychologist. A kids psychologist even better. Tell them how you feel, and how your son feels. Then act upon what they tell you. That would be your best bet to actually help him without hurting him or his psychology!
At the mean time something else needs to be done before that. If what your son is saying is true you need to tell this to your ex. He deserves to know over all. I think you should even notify the police… I can’t stand somebody hitting a child. Please take care dear. God bless you!
Hello there dear friend. How are you doing? I hope that things are fine at your end. I believe everything has an explanation. A rational explanation to be exact. In your case I guess the explanation is very simple. Thing about it this way… When and why do you get angry? Start from yourself, it’s usually when things don’t go the way you want them to. Like for example at work or at the gym or wherever, doesn’t matter. You start screaming get mad and your behaviour changes a little right? Well no that much because you’re a grown up, you understand stuff. So you manage your anger and go on with your day. In your daughters case she is young. When she is at her mommies, the other children sometimes don’t listen to her… Mommy is busy and sometimes forgets about her. So this is probably just her being angry. This is just my opinion though. Nothing professional lays behind this. God bless you!
Hi there Marion. I am glad you are sharing this with us. i will try my best to help you out dear. Based on what I know your case seems to be a case of infertility with unknown cause. It is kind of common… I have heard about it a lot and I have red a lot about it. It happens when there is nothing that causes infertility yet the couple is infertile. This is a very hard disease as there is no known treatment. Most of the time IVF is known to work but not always. What you should do based on what doctors say is try to get yourself healthy.By this I mena start runing, eating healthy, exercising, quit bad habits and so on. Maybe that all you need to make it there. Also try to reduce stress, maybe that is what has been causing the infertility at the first place. God bless you and treat yourself well. Tell me more about what happens when you can.
Hello there Lisa. I am sorry that you are going through this hell as you said it… THis is not the end howver dear. Maybe thats what it seems like to you right now but believe me there is more. In your life as of right now you have only seen the bad stuff. You have suffered a lot and been through hell. Again i am very sorry for that… However try to cheer up as what will come from now on will be better. It is only normal for that to happen. That’s how I know that you will be having a better life starting soon enough. I guess that’s how god operates. At first he gives us suffering and hard times! Usually after that he follows with relief and happiness. Keep on strong dear! God bless you!
Hi there Race. How are you doing my firend? Is everything okay? I hope that you asnwer htese questions positively. Life as we know would be super broing had there not been issues with it. It is also impossible to live a quiet life… Troubles, issues, will come no matter what we do to prevent them. Don’t worry too much as this is something that will pass by! Since the injection didn’t work dear, why didn’t you reapply. Maybe you just need to try a few more times. I know that this sounds stupid. Especially coming from somebody who hasn’t been through the same as you but… Think of it this way: sacrifices are necessary to reach happines. Try to convince yourself to start all over again. Or try to find whats really causing the injection to not work… You diagnosis might be wrong dear. God bless you and please update further details! I would love to hear more!
Hello there Anna. How are you doing dear? I hope things are fine at your end. I am really sorry to hear what happened to you! You were just trying your best not to get caught in anything bat… I guess it backfired at you. However there is still hope. I am pretty sure that things will get much more better eventually. You see in life bad things happne all the time. Sometimes we don’t have even who to blame. Sometimes we have our selves… In your case it is a little bit different I guess. Somebody else did this to you… However do not let hate accumulate on your heart! You don’t need that at all. Just keep living your life and hoping for the best. Best of luck to you my dear friend. I hope this issues comes to an end as soon as possible. Take care love!
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Jennifer here, a brand new user. How are you all doing? I hope that everyone is having a great day. I would love to get to know you all. This place seems very interesting and I am happy to be part of it. This is my story and a little details about me. Hope you all find this interesting.
My name is Jennifer Wilson. I am from England and I am happy to meet you all. I am married and I am a mother of a beautiful son. Currently I am in doubt whether to start surrogacy for another child. As you could guess I suffer from secondary infertility. Lately I have been thinking about this very hard… I would be honored to know what you all think. God bless you all and thanks for reading.