Shirley Akin

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  • #1670
    Shirley Akin
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    Hey Noreen! How are you? The choice between surrogacy and adoption is a big question. She needs to consider her priorities. Through surrogacy, you have a chance at having a baby genetically related to you. But in adoption, there is no such thing. I can tell you what I’ll do if I was in the same position as her. If the baby can be 100% related to us, I’ll go for surrogacy. I mean if my eggs and husband’s sperms were viable enough. But if either one of them can’t be used, adoption it is. I can’t stand the chance of knowing my child belongs to my husband and not me. It seems weird. But it is true. In that case, it is better that child belongs to neither. But that’s my opinion. Good look with your decision.

    #1643
    Shirley Akin
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    This is so nice of you to share such an information. You have said it right. Lots of information delivered so comprehensively. It is really helpful for many out there. I hear many people talking about their struggles and efforts. All they need is a little ray of hope. And your post does it right. It is spreading love and hope. Also knowledge and awareness.
    I would like to take a moment and thank you. Thank you so much to take time out of your busy routine to help others.
    I hope to hear more. Lots of love to you. More power to you. Stay the same. Keep spreading hope and love.

    #1642
    Shirley Akin
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    Stay blessed

    #1641
    Shirley Akin
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    Hey there. How are you doing? Congratulations on your success. I am really happy to know about you. If I was in the situation, I would have told my baby about it. Because according to me it doesn’t matter.
    I hope everything works fine for you. Lots of love to you.

    #1640
    Shirley Akin
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    Hey there. How are you doing? I hope you are fine. I am happy to know about your friend. This is so nice of you to share her story. Her story is really a true inspiration to many out there. I hear a lot many people talking about their struggles and efforts they are putting to be pregnant. In such a situation, your post in a ray of hope for all of them. It is giving them that little hope which they need right now in their lives.
    Thank you so much for sharing. Thank you for taking time out of your busy life and spreading the love.Stay the same. Keep spreading love and strength. I wish you lots of success and luck in future. Hope to hear more from you. Keep posting more and spreading the hope.
    Much love. More power to you.

    #1639
    Shirley Akin
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    Congratulations lady. So happy for you. And I must say this is so nice of you to share such a nice post. You are a strong lady. It is so kind of you to spread love and hope. Your post is quite helpful for people who are struggling. Keep posting more. Lots of love and luck to you. More power to you.

    #1638
    Shirley Akin
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    I am sorry for your losses. I don’t have any experience in surrogacy. But I can tell you that it is a safe and quite a better option to go with. I have heard many people talking about it. People share their success stories about surrogacy. I hope everything goes fine for you. Lots of luck to you.

    #1637
    Shirley Akin
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    Surrogacy is not a big deal these days. It is helping many in need. It has a high success rate. Surrogacy is legal in some countries. It is also cheap there. There are some clinics who offer different packages. One can select the most suitable package.
    I know all this because I visited a clinic for IVF. I had a great experience. There is got to know more about surrogacy too. I tried to tell you what I knew the most. I guess you must search for it on your own. You will gather a lot of information in no time. I hope everything goes fine for your friend. Lots of love to her. Baby dust on her. Much love.

    #1326
    Shirley Akin
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    Hey there! Hmm nicely summarized. I have a 7 month old daughter. I usually make a list with the order of products in which they are displayed in stores. So I start at one end and finish at the other. She is cecoming difficult to go shopping with as she is growing. You know she cries and doesn’t like shopping at all. Well not at this age 😉 .

    #1325
    Shirley Akin
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    Hey Felicia! How are you? Welcome to the forum. Nice recommendation from your sister ;). So how is everything? Had a son through surrogacy you said. That’s pretty amazing. Congratulations dear. You must be excited about him. Good for you. I have a 7 month old daughter. Had her through IVF. Such a trouble maker she is :). I love her so much. Hope to hear more from you. We are here to help. You can talk about anything you like. Much love.

    #1278
    Shirley Akin
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    Hey there! You came to the right place. Yeah there are many ways for assisted conception these days. But very expensive in America. You would probably be suggested to go for IVF, or surrogacy. Keeping in mind your condition that is. Ukraine is the best option for both of them. I had my ivf there. Had success in the first cycle. Yaayyyy…
    So I guess it is a good option. Look into that. I guess trying to search for good clinics is the best option to start with. And then you can contact the clinic and confirm the type of test you can go through. They’ll start you off nice. Good luck. I wish you get to have a baby soon. Much love. Xx

    #1277
    Shirley Akin
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    I would see what my husband and I want the most. A child. Or a genetically related child. Now if we want a related child, I’ll see if that is possible for both. I mean both can be related to the child. For me, it’ll be weird if only one of us is related. So in that case, I might opt for adoption. There are a lot of things to consider while choosing between the two options. Choose wisely. And carefully too. I wish you good luck. May you make a smart choice for yourselves. Stay happy. More power to you. Much love. Xx

    #1276
    Shirley Akin
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    What is the clinic you are consulting? I know a clinic that provides complete data of the surrogate. Gets a complete history from them. And also a great many number of tests. Surrogacy is a great option indeed. But the choice of a clinic matters the most. Get in touch if you need any help.

    #1275
    Shirley Akin
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    Hope you are fine and enjoying these days. That is so great. I am so happy to know about you. 🙂 Finally, you are going to have your own baby. This is really amazing. Becoming a mother is the best you can get from life. It is the real happiness, I must say. The day you will get to touch your baby, You will feel like you are the luckiest person alive. These are the best feeling of life. I am so happy for you. I am looking forward to hearing more from you. Lots of love and luck to you. Fingers crossed for you. Many many wishes and blessings to you. More power and baby dust on your way.

    #1274
    Shirley Akin
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    PCOS can be that way. I am sorry for her. Nice of you to look out for her. Yeah IVF is a good option indeed. I don’t have PCOS. But I had IVF for my first baby. I won’t bore you with the details of my disease and journey. But since you care so much about your friend, I’ll give you some headers. First thing to consider is a good fertility clinic. You’ll find many. Consider the one with the highest success rate. There are some clinics that offer some guarantee. So its worth looking into. Second, it’ll be great if the clinic has their own doctors etc. So they can test your friend and suggest the best option for her. Meanwhile, support your friend in every way possible. Stay emotionally available for her.

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