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Milan replied to the topic Should you tell the child they are adopted? in the forum Adoption Agencies 7 years, 6 months ago
This is good that you have decided to raise this topic. Many parents have been stranded to what to decide. Well, I can say it is a personal decision. But when you look at it vividly I don’t think if it is. Like you have to keep that child into consideration. You have been raising that child like yours. So the decision you make should be wise. You…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic Welcome! in the forum Welcome! 7 years, 6 months ago
Let me start with some questions. After your thyroids were removed then what next? Like what were you controlling your iodine with. You should note that the thyroid is so important. It affects your iodine balance. Many people take is to be minor. But as you now know it even affects your productivity. Anyway, it seems you have been managing well.…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic When is the best time to start potty training? in the forum Newborn 7 years, 6 months ago
If you want to know if your child is ready for potty you will note it in her behaviors. Like does she gave you any expressions when she wants to pee? She should be able to note if she wants to help herself. Like making faces. Especially if she is going for a long call. That way you will know when she wants to help herself. If you start getting…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic Looking for Indy Surrogacy Consultants in the forum Independent Surrogacy 7 years, 6 months ago
I have been dealing with surrogacy for quite a while. I think I can be if help. I personally I am a professional surrogate. Currently I am not dealing with any consultancy. I have been doing surrogacy from an independent point of view. And I feel it is best this way. This Is because of disappointments. I once worked for an agency as a surrogate. I…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic Gay Friendly Conceiveabilites in Chicago in the forum LGBTQ Friendly Surrogacy Agencies 7 years, 6 months ago
This is positive news. Sometimes there are rules when it concerns gays. Other clinics do not even allow such. Well, I always say it is good to respect everyone’s decision. I am not going to point fingers at you just because I sin differently. Most clinic tend to have this type of being biased. This is not good at all. But since you guys ere…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic First Child due Feb 2018! in the forum February 2018 7 years, 6 months ago
This is good new dear. I am a professional surrogate and I can understand your happiness. Many women are always happy when surrogacy come positive. When they finally hold their babies in their hand. If I am to share a story that I once went through. I was a surrogate for a certain couple. It was my 2nd surrogacy I was doing. The couple had gone 10…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic In-Laws are not on board with Surrogacy in the forum Family Life 7 years, 6 months ago
This is the one problem with in laws. They feel like they can make any decision in your marriage. Especially the mother in law. I always hate such families. Actually there are families that the mother in law has a say in everything. It will feel like you are the visitor. Like your husband is married to your mother in law. This is so sickening. My…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic MY STORY in the forum Parent Wellness 7 years, 6 months ago
Thank you for the encouragement. I am sure many people need this. Others feel that if they do not know the cause of their infertility their cannot be a solution. You are a living proof that this is not correct. You were suffering from infertility whose cause is unknown. But you never gave up. For the 5 years you decided to go for another option.…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic BABY WORRY in the forum Baby & Child Wellness 7 years, 6 months ago
Congratulations for the bundle of joy. I can understand what you went through to get that child. A failed IVF and disappointment. In your case you even had to do egg donation. That must have been expensive. But at least at the end of the day you succeeded. There ate many people looking for a child there. Wit even more than 6 procedures. Maybe they…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic GAY COUPLE ADOPTION in the forum Contracts, Insurance & Legal 7 years, 6 months ago
It is so unfortunate that we are having inequality when dealing with the LGBTQ community. Till today it seems like they have not yet been accepted in the community. Everyone is supposed to respect others person decision. Just because they are gay it cannot deny them the right. Like any other citizen they also have rights. Right to adopt a child.…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic TRIPLE TROUBLE in the forum Multiples 7 years, 6 months ago
Aww, I always wish for twins or triplets. According to me, triplets are a blessing. Not just blessings but triple blessings. Since I was a child I have always wished for this. To have multiples. If it is twins then it is fine. Same case to triplets. Then after this, I will not conceive again. I am so glad for her. It is so unfortunate that she is…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic Help a sister in the forum International Adoption 7 years, 6 months ago
Yes dear, there are laws. This laws vary from one country to another. You should also note different adoption centers have their own laws too. There ae some that might allow her. While others may not. She should expect any kind of answer. It could be best if she did internet research. Or she goes to adoption agencies. In S.A they might be of help.…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic Suffering from financial strain in the forum Budgeting & Financial 7 years, 6 months ago
Hearing your plight I can imagine myself in that situation. Many people have had dreams die due to lack of funds. I am also sorry for what your sister has gone through. There have been cases of people even going 10 years. In her case it was just 3 years. Bur I can still feel the pain. Especially for a person going through miscarriage. You get all…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic The love of a sister in the forum Independent Surrogacy 7 years, 6 months ago
that’s so good of you honey. It seems the two of you really care for each other. There is no problem being her surrogate. That will help her great deal financially. The one problem with infertility is the cost. The services being provided are always expensive. People might even end up making millions just to conceive. Now that your sister is not…[Read more]
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Milan replied to the topic How does it feel being a surrogate? in the forum Transfer 7 years, 6 months ago
This is so cute of you. I wish I had a sister like you. Truly, sister are for each other. It is nice to hear that you are interested in helping your sister. More important that it has always been her dream. Well, being a surrogate is not a big task. If you are a mother already them you know how it feels like already. It is just the usual being…[Read more]
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