https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/members/vickyyk/activity/ Activity feed for Victoria. Mon, 13 Apr 2026 17:48:18 +0000 https://buddypress.org/?v=11.3.1 en-US 30 hourly 2 8b9c30b9aee1b852eaed24552c22e13e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-advice/page/3/#post-6461 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 16:50:39 +0000 Infertility’s a curse. I wish people didn’t have to go through it. Anyway, there are procedures like surrogacy for us now. That is such a blessing really. I think going for it is definitely a good idea. Also, try clinics in Europe for a better cost option.

]]> f5a74c23d8bbcc8df06b01166a04dcda https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-or-adoption/#post-6458 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 16:40:43 +0000 Hey! Good to hear you’re better. I am sorry you had to go through the hardships. I think you’re making a good decision. Surrogacy will go well for you. You should try looking at clinics abroad. Even though you’re stable financially, they’ll be lighter on your wallet. I think you’ll do great. Don’t over think it. Just go. I’ve gotten it done as…[Read more]

]]> e543bd4273b40e2aa1248134c6624c63 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-15/#post-6457 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 16:17:16 +0000 Hey! I hope you’re good. It’s nice to hear you’re thinking about this. I think you’ll do great with it. You shouldn’t overthink about this. Find a clinic and get on with it. Wishing you a baby very soon!

]]> f0634a8ac0ce251ee4a1d036f799a75f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-9/page/2/#post-6450 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 15:51:25 +0000 Hey! Thanks for this post. You’ve highlighted some important things. You’re right about what you said. Surrogacy sure is beautiful. I think we shouldn’t shun it. It’s costly too as you said. However, there are clinics abroad that offer it at a better price. Surrogacy is essentially a means for infertile people to get children. Not only that but it…[Read more]

]]> caf850871167fb9297a71534228e2489 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-14/#post-6284 Tue, 28 Aug 2018 15:41:41 +0000 Hey! This question seems to be very popular. It’s always a big debate. I think if you”re tied between the two, there’s obviously a part of you that aches for a baby that’s biologically yours. I say the cost is almost the same, so go for surrogacy. You’ll be much happier. Good luck with it!

]]> e0235f8967cc3f23dd2c0e7955bb848e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-suggestions-3/page/2/#post-6279 Tue, 28 Aug 2018 15:10:19 +0000 Hey! I think I can help you out well here. I went through quite some of the same of what you have. I had cancerous polyps which required my uterus to be removed. I was in a dark phase until I was finally introduced to surrogacy. I researched it and finally my DH and I took the decision. We found a clinic with good packages and went for it. I’m…[Read more]

]]> 0196f75127ed0345f413da59f0775a17 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-cost-internationally/page/2/#post-6219 Mon, 27 Aug 2018 19:07:12 +0000 Hey! You’ve highlighted some important points here. I think these factors are what one should definitely consider before going for surrogacy. There are better options as you say compared to America. I personally have gone for surrogacy as well. I’m so happy with the outcome. 🙂

]]> 4aca8b977a6009683dae7babd30b1323 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/suggestions/page/2/#post-6218 Mon, 27 Aug 2018 19:02:43 +0000 Hi! Well, your chances of conceiving are definitely there. Age plays a big factor in TTC. But there are many still who succeed. I think your best bet is to keep trying. Give it time. Or if you’re impatient, I’d suggest you start looking into your options alongside. It’s understandable to want to want this as soon as possible. Considering your age,…[Read more]

]]> 4fa8cc3a9e3051dbfb900b5108487ba4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/afraid-to-go-for-surrogacy/page/10/#post-6216 Mon, 27 Aug 2018 18:56:05 +0000 Hello dear! I hope you’re feeling better now. I wish you didn’t have to go through such a tough time. However, sadly many do. TTC is no easy thing. There are soo many out there who face difficulties as you are. I think it’s best to be patient and to be completely thorough in your research for alternatives. So far, you seem to be on the right…[Read more]

]]> 208e5cdf5ea36cfdd6a747671564ae71 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-mc-ttc/page/4/#post-6132 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 20:33:54 +0000 Hi! I pray you’re well. There’s a lot of stresses involved with conceiving. It’s such a tough thing, TTC. I know it can get very difficult. However, we mustn’t lose hope. Surrogacy is a beautiful process. I think you’ll do very well with it. If you are completely sure you don’t mind not carrying your child then you should definitely go for it.…[Read more]

]]> 7b3e1f97e702ac1a061542411a9a1974 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/my-ttc/page/4/#post-6131 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 20:33:17 +0000 I think surrogacy is a great way to complete your family I think you’ll be in good hands. Just choose your clinic well. IVF and other methods have only some chance of success. However, with surrogacy at least you don’t have that uncertainty problem. WIshing you all the best. Do keep us updated!

]]> f0266fe80b4fae7050e4e6c00ed5fb43 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-advice/#post-6118 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 19:14:11 +0000 Hello! I think you’re very right. One shouldn’t lose hope. Children are a true blessing. If you have decided to have them once, then you should continue trying until you get them. TTC can be tough. It can stretch to months or years with no success. I am someone who’s not able to conceive due to having no uterus. I then turned to surrogacy as my on…[Read more]

]]> c54fb40e58ec17c2c27b24e4b52d1fe9 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/infertility/page/3/#post-6107 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 18:41:08 +0000 Hey! I’m sorry about this. There are much better clinics out there. You just have to be careful. What procedure was it that you were going for? I think it’s a great decision you’ve made. Don’t let this discourage you. You’ll find a great ending to your story 🙂

]]> 12aff6349736f98576189e101911ff4a https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/great-procedure-surrogacy/#post-6106 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 18:39:11 +0000 Hi there. You’re right. Surrogacy’s probably the most efficient. I think it’s a great procedure. However, we shouldn’t undermine IVF and IUI. They’re all there for our help. These methods have made life so much easier for thousands of people.

]]> 3bb9395fc62bc39c5fa4e634a9e1d3ec https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/dont-lose-hope/page/4/#post-5989 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 22:29:20 +0000 Hi! I hope you and the family are doing well. I’m glad everything turned out for the best for you. Infertility’s really tough on some people. You came out of it shining. Surrogacy’s a great procedure. I think it’s great that you opted for it. Do keep spreading the motivation and positivity, love!

]]> 18640f29ba8477edb487251952ff8b88 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/experience-with-surrogacy/page/5/#post-5988 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 22:24:25 +0000 Hey! I hope you’re well. Infertility is such a sad reality. But it’s all for your best to keep your minds open to options. Surrogacy is a great such option. I have seen many people take on to it and change their lives. Youtube is filled with such beautiful stories. So inspiring. I think it’s time we stop shunning the procedure. However, I’m glad…[Read more]

]]> 0440eaaf64a50d74ca55e0f120eac3f2 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-suggestions-2/ Wed, 18 Jul 2018 09:39:00 +0000 Hey everyone. I think you can help out here. A friend is facing difficulties in TTC. I recommended she go for IVF or surrogacy. She’s open to both options. She just can’t narrow down to one. IVF is great in that she can conceive herself. But there are many cases where it isn’t successful. Or it is very time-taking. Surrogacy, on the other hand,…[Read more]

]]> edce40c8a44876f84626b0823bb5688e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/a-dark-end/#post-4875 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 14:17:26 +0000 Please don’t be this upset. It hurts me to see you like this. Losing hope. I want you to keep it together, please. Everything will get better. I promise. There are so many that face infertility issues. You’re not alone in this. I think you should try going for an IVF. It really helps many. Some clinics even offer multiple tries til success. That…[Read more]

]]> 1711920848d15d77dd026db560f53f5b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/share-your-experience-with-surrogacy-agencies/page/5/#post-4803 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 09:30:46 +0000 I’m very happy to hear that sweetie! It’s great to hear that your baby’s just along the way. You’re right about wanting lower costs. These procedures cost a lot. Where did you end up going then? I don’t suppose it must’ve been Lotus? That clinic just brings back bad memories for me. I tried to contact them in my time of need. They just didn’t care…[Read more]

]]> 3703e75ce5f61ab19670864fc6c8b407 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/golden-chance/#post-4794 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 19:41:32 +0000 This is such a good opportunity, really! I think a lot can benefit from this. There are such good clinics like this one. And then there’s Lotus. God, it just makes me mad thinking about that one. I have written numerous emails to it and never gotten a reply. It’s just so annoying. How do you plan to run a clinic like that? When you don’t even…[Read more]

]]> e66dd5078cefbca3dbcd93d775e4c298 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/fertility-clinics/page/2/#post-4604 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 12:14:24 +0000 You’re right to make a thread on this. This is a topic irking me and I’m sure many others out there. It’s completely wrong of these clinics to play with the emotions of their patients. It’s no way to treat them. How can you not reply to their desperate queries? I’ve experienced the same from them both. I’d not recommend these to anyone!

]]> 6700f88db419b2fedcf20be09849d1ae https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-some-guidance/page/2/#post-4601 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 12:02:40 +0000 That sounds awful! I’m so sorry for your losses. I can imagine what it must be like. But please don’t blame yourself for any of this. It isn’t your fault. Miscarriages happen to so many. Also, I think it’s unfair that your husband’s divorcing you because of this. There’s still hope for you. You can always try out a fertility treatment or…[Read more]

]]> e8ed8b2bd1af4d31030aa819a8e17d80 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-5/page/3/#post-4588 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 09:57:04 +0000 Hey! You’re very right. Surrogacy and adoption have opened up the doors for so many. It’s really a blessing for us t have them. They’ve not only helped out infertile couples but also gays! It truly makes me happy to see it. People have the chance to finally start or complete their families. Something they’ve always dreamed of. Surrogacy is a great…[Read more]

]]> 7e05b7a405c9d18ab59b3a0ae82e574e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/help-please/page/2/#post-4394 Sat, 07 Jul 2018 14:07:53 +0000 Hi Jessica! It sucks that you were a victim of this pathetic serviced clinic. I have heard of the likes of these experiences from many people. I took it upon myself to email them for inquiring about their treatments as well. No reply. I totally get where you’re coming from. This is just disheartening. However, you definitely will find much better…[Read more]

]]> befea17f97bfb6693853b227a8539e68 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/this-post-is-essentially-about-my-experience-with-surrogacy/page/5/#post-4393 Sat, 07 Jul 2018 14:03:56 +0000 I’m so happy for you! I’m sorry you had to go through hardships before you found your happiness. But what matters is that you did in the end! I stand totally with surrogacy. I think it’s such a great method to opt for those struggling with TTC. We all know it can be difficult. IVF is a good one too but definitely not as certain with results as…[Read more]

]]> 9bb99c32d2976235d0a2fdbdc0fee6c5 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-ir-ivf/#post-4026 Tue, 03 Jul 2018 11:34:38 +0000 I would say you should go for surrogacy. It’s my personal favorite. I think it’s just so beautiful that you have this option for getting your child. And it’s biologically related to you! There are so many great fertility clinics out there now. I would suggest trying something in Europe. They’re a lot more reasonable. Good luck with your experience!

]]> 17fbf1d5fafc1316f7f01151daf6507f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/how-it-works/#post-4024 Tue, 03 Jul 2018 11:27:23 +0000 This was definitely interesting. It’s cleared up a lot of confusion. I think adoption is a great procedure to get your child through. I think if one feels more comfortable with having his own biologically connected child then surrogacy is a great option. It costs just about the same as adoption. Both of these methods have changed life for the…[Read more]

]]> 82d86d0ba663dbfde3d1172dc4f8c4e4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy/page/4/#post-3992 Tue, 03 Jul 2018 08:41:58 +0000 You’ll do great with surrogacy. There’s no need to panic. Actually, surrogacy’s the most effective of all fertility-related procedures. I think so at least. IVF often isn’t so successful in first few attempts. I think it’s a good treatment but in your case, you don’t have trouble conceiving. You have troubles carrying out the full pregnancy. For…[Read more]

]]> 29a8e56e6ddcf4f0ddbd53c8d35268be https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-again/page/2/#post-3991 Tue, 03 Jul 2018 08:31:24 +0000 Surrogacy really would be great for you. You have prior experience so you know how well it goes. Other methods aren’t as effective IMO anyway. Where did you go the last time? These days there’s so much negative talk against Lotus and Adonis. They don’t care enough to reply to queries. Such a bummer really. You must have gone to a good one? Ukraine…[Read more]

]]> fd8d5e6073886a8a00a6b3e5e0401a1a https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/my-ttc/page/3/#post-3635 Wed, 27 Jun 2018 21:15:16 +0000 Surrogacy is a great way to complete your family I think you’ll be in good hands. Just choose your clinic well. IVF and other methods have only some chance of success. However, with surrogacy at least you don’t have that uncertainty problem. WIshing you all the best. Do keep us updated!

]]> 79243c2d13bad06459068906cfa0eefe https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ttc-and-surrogacy/page/4/#post-3634 Wed, 27 Jun 2018 21:09:04 +0000 I’m happy you found a really good partner to share this endeavor with. It’ll really be for the best that you look into surrogacy. It’s a great way to get your baby. I think you should be at ease now. Finding the clinic should be your main concern. There are some great ones in Ukraine. Do stay away from Adnos though. You’ll be set up for…[Read more]

]]> f45ae3a4fa3a85f207c4bfe31dfb254e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/afraid-to-go-for-surrogacy/page/5/#post-3633 Wed, 27 Jun 2018 20:50:10 +0000 I don’t think you should stress too much about this. SUrogcay is a great process. I think you’ll be very happy once you go through it. It’s one of the best sure shot ways to get your child amongst all other assistive conceiving methods. Choosing the right clinic is definitely key. I would suggest looking for some in Europe. Not Lotus or Adonis…[Read more]

]]> 37fde1a000826b17520db7bc2f669bd5 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-mc-ttc/page/2/#post-3632 Wed, 27 Jun 2018 20:45:38 +0000 There’s a lot of stresses involved with conceiving. It’s such a tough thing, TTC. I know it can get very difficult. However, we mustn’t lose hope. Surrogacy is a beautiful process. I think you’ll do very well with it. If you are completely sure you don’t mind not carrying your child then you should definitely go for it. It’s the baby you get what…[Read more]

]]> 85c530a570d0c9786a380276379ce4bf https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/regards-lotus-clinic/#post-3454 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 12:00:12 +0000 I’m sorry you’re facing this situation. It can be difficult as it is without a load of this disappointment. I’m sorry your experience has been so bad. I wish they didn’t treat you like this. However, I’m hearing of this problem from many. It’s not right. I hope they start treating patients better soon.

]]> 41504fc6d992d4f14cf196ec96847c37 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-suggestions/#post-3449 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 11:26:40 +0000 You are totally right. Surrogacy really is a blessing. For so many, infertility is a big problem. I wish it wasn’t but it is. So many are suffering from this. It truly breaks my heart. I wish everyone who’s going through this period in their lives is able to settle on an alternative. It is so much better than to lose hope. It is banned in some…[Read more]

]]> 017e58fc02585e0bda61fbf3d66476a3 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/i-wish-i-had-a-biological-child-2/#post-3331 Sun, 24 Jun 2018 09:52:09 +0000 You are right. A child is a child. However, I guess we can’t really understand the sentiments until we are in that position. I think it’ll be extremely hard to let go of a child that you have spent so much love and care over. It’s what makes me admire surrogate so much too! It’s an amazing job they do. I’ll never be able to understand their emotions.

]]> 82497c7d4cc6967ec53514e5a74c6e2f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/experience-with-surrogacy/page/3/#post-3330 Sun, 24 Jun 2018 09:47:22 +0000 This was indeed a wonderful story! I’m sorry you had to go through hardships first. But that’s how it goes. I wish these didn’t exist. Infertility affects so many couples. However, we’re blessed to have these means. Surrogacy and in some cases where IVF works, it’s all wonderful. Everyone deserves to have children if they wish to. And having a…[Read more]

]]> 036f3ef31094c0abb976fcc5b3433549 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/second-baby-maybe/page/3/#post-3227 Fri, 22 Jun 2018 10:34:51 +0000 Hello! Thank you all for your sweet replies. It’s really heartwarming that you took the time out for them. Many of you suggest I go for it. I think so too. I can already feel the excitement bubbling. I sure will keep you all updated! Thanks once again!

]]> 8a73f7d89c5e481c5dee390faf9a757d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/second-baby-maybe/page/3/#post-3226 Fri, 22 Jun 2018 10:33:36 +0000 Thank you all for your sweet replies. It’s really heartwarming that you took the time out for them. Many of you suggest I go for it. I think so too. I can already feel the excitement bubbling. I sure will keep you all updated! Thanks once again!

]]> 0d128009edfaccc9cc30dc36fd1e59f9 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/choose-wisely/ Fri, 22 Jun 2018 10:20:56 +0000 Hello everyone! I hope you are doing well. Surrogacy has provided lots of happiness to so many. Infertility problems have increased in the past many years. It’s sad to see so many people suffering from this problem. No one deserves this. However, thankfully methods like this one exist now for our ease. Everything is not without a little hardship…[Read more]

]]> 598b7b1fda5d0e40974f92135cb8df9f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/tell-us-about-your-ivf/page/2/#post-3216 Fri, 22 Jun 2018 10:06:42 +0000 IVF tends to not be successful on the first attempt. Actually, it may take several attempts before a positive result for some people. However, I would suggest that you don’t let this discourage you. It works wonderfully for many as well. It’s a treatment made for our benefit and we should take advantage of it. There are clinics that offer…[Read more]

]]> 46865a493927219652dc8a7866fdd8f1 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/welcome/page/4/#post-3105 Wed, 20 Jun 2018 11:55:12 +0000 Hi! I joined this forum a few months ago. I took a break from the internet in between, but now I’m back! I’ve missed communicating with the lovely people on here. I can’t wait to get back and talk with them. If anyone’s who feels down or distressed do reach out! I’d love to help!

]]> a7135ebd8990cdef1553bbe55b977155 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/afraid-to-go-for-surrogacy/page/2/#post-3102 Wed, 20 Jun 2018 10:48:42 +0000 Hello dear! I hope you’re feeling better now. I wish you didn’t have to go through such a tough time. However, sadly many do. TTC is no easy thing. There are soo many out there who face difficulties as you are. I think it’s best to be patient and to be completely thorough in your research for alternatives. So far, you seem to be on the right…[Read more]

]]> d22bafbe43118bc65174a0296549e269 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-benefits/#post-1860 Thu, 12 Apr 2018 14:32:39 +0000 Love this thread. It explains my experience perfectly. I had a really good time with it. I thought my dreams of becoming a mother were crushed. THen I encountered this option. It’s blessed me in the best way. My little girl is so healthy and adorable. I can’t be thankful enough for her. Surrogacy is opening up gates for so many!

]]> ea8bcbe5b8cc266ec417fe6a1de5ed88 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/chances-of-pregnancy-after-40/#post-1859 Thu, 12 Apr 2018 14:27:31 +0000 Age really plays an important factor while trying to conceive. It’s not easy. We all need to have patience during the time. But it gets so tough for so many. I see quite a few of my friend struggling too. Age isn’t the problem for them though. I don’t know what is. I wish there weren’t these many complications. I had cancerous polyps personally.…[Read more]

]]> 981e083a1fb9bf5a4bf0033a44f3ea1d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/help-a-friend/#post-1620 Sun, 01 Apr 2018 11:16:42 +0000 This is so brave of your friend to do. It’s no small thing becoming a surrogate. It takes a lot of emotional strength and patience to get through this. I wish your friend all the best. I think it’d be amazing if she could get through with it. About the legalities, I suggest getting in contact with a lawyer. I would hate to offer the wrong advice…[Read more]

]]> 4c08cd75bc14ab522ef2611763d3b193 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-experience/#post-1619 Sun, 01 Apr 2018 10:31:57 +0000 Wow! That really is so nice to hear. I mean, I never would’ve thought one could get the resemblance to the mother when donor eggs are used. Appearance by face or mannerisms! I’m so happy for your friend. It must be even more joyful for her. It’s tough enough as it is going through a time like this. Infertility is no little thing. But to not only…[Read more]

]]> 0a9a19543adcde30dc9cdfd0c3d33ae7 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-research/#post-1580 Sat, 31 Mar 2018 13:45:52 +0000 Hi there! I have experience with surrogacy. A really good one actually. I went to a clinic in Europe and they handled everything for us! It’s been the best. I finally have my kid from it. I’m actually thinking of going again. But it’s not decided yet. Maybe we’ll be there together? Who knows. Good luck with everything!

]]> f1942f673e4e4875274615b46772a07c https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/second-baby/ Sat, 31 Mar 2018 13:43:08 +0000 Hi everyone! I hope you all are good. I went with surrogacy to get my first child. A daughter. It was a clinic in Europe and I had a great experience with it. It didn’t drain me financially. It even provided some really good services alongside the treatment. There was free food, transport, and accommodation for my stay! However, now I’m thi…[Read more]

]]> 681e1702307805f2daf7634424f6e017 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/we-are-losing-it/page/2/#post-1540 Fri, 30 Mar 2018 11:23:49 +0000 Hi there! Please don’t feel so down. Don’t beat yourself up about this. I wish these complications didn’t exist. But they do. It’s the harsh reality. Anyway, you have options. Surrogacy and IVF are really good ones. It doesn’t matter which way you pick as long as you’re getting your desired result at the end. Your child. That’s all that matters! I…[Read more]

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