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monika replied to the topic Would you tell your child about conception via egg donation? in the forum Egg Donation 8 years, 5 months ago
I think there is nothing bad in it to hide about. You should definitely tell your child later on. As the world is the small place and he/she will eventually find it out soon. So it is better that you tell them before they find out by someone else. The relationship is made up of love and care. So your children would want that more important than…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Thinking Of Surrogacy in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
Well, you are absolutely right. IVF may work or may not. As a lot of it depends on whether the embryo will develop. If it does develop it will be able to grow in your uterus or not. All the assisted conception methods are expensive. Whether it is surrogacy or IVF. It was definitely a concern for me as well. As in my town every agency, I go to they…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Poor ovarian reserve and TTC in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
I feel really down today and thought I would share this in my thread. As someone who has been diagnosed with infertility. I feel like life seems so meaningless. It is so strange how things are going on. As if you have everything in the world. A loving DH a proper house with all the necessities. However, still, you are incomplete. Sometimes I feel…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Help a sister in the forum International Adoption 8 years, 5 months ago
I hope your sister soon is able to solve this problem. Definitely, financial problem is the biggest hurdle in the solution of infertility. We also first were facing this issue. However, there was still this small hope inside me that somehow I will be able to get some help. Luckily I did get some help. I watched this video of a clinic. They were…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Surrogacy Research in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
Seems like you have been researching a lot. It is really good. I am visiting the same clinic. They are indeed doing a great job. I was searching for a clinic which was not only fair but also inexpensive as compared to others. This clinic was really the right one. They really do help you know them. I attended their online meeting sessions as well.…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Poor ovarian reserve and TTC in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey everyone thanks for your overwhelming response. I have indeed found a clinic abroad. As I said in my previous post that I was on the hunt. I basically watched a ton of videos. I also looked at different posts by people. This one clinic was rated the best. I did my research on them and got in touch with them Even have attended one of their…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Help Suggestions! in the forum Contracts, Insurance & Legal 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey, Olivia good to know that you finally have made a decision. It is very important to research on the clinic. Now that I myself am going for surrogacy. I have researched it very thoroughly. The few things that everyone should look into include. Firstly, that the clinic should be operating legally. Secondly, the babies documentations need to be…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Surrogacy and expenses in the forum Budgeting & Financial 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey, Gina welcome to this forum. Yes, you’re definitely right. We cant be unreasonable about this whole idea. As a surrogate is giving birth to our baby. So that is something that we can’t even argue on. However, I do believe that some of them can exploit as well. The reason why it is important to always have this middle person. Which is the…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic IVF in the forum Transfer 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey, Milan thank you for this post. I believe going through the IVF process is the most difficult one. As you’re to go through a long cycle. Cycle filled with shots and what not. Some people in the hope that things work out even do various other things side by side. However, what really scares me is that there is no guarantee attached to it. So I…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Surrogacy in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey, best of luck with your surrogacy process. I hope the process works out for you. It is indeed the most successful process and is being done by a lot of couples. I myself have considered it and in fact, have also found a clinic abroad. I too had a lot of concerns regarding surrogacy. However, I watched the videos by the clinic and was reassured…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Over 40.. in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
Honestly, speaking some of the doctors are just trying to make out some money and that is it. They don’t realize that because of their stupidity someone else can badly get affected. It is honestly such a shame. The exact same thing happened to me as well. I was put on a Clomid cycle for so long. Every month passed by and so did my hope. I then…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Starting the journey with surrogate mum in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
Best of luck to you I hope everything goes smoothly and you surrogate gets pregnant. I too am finding myself in a similar situation. I was diagnosed with poor ovarian reserves with my AMH levels being low and FSH levels being high. However, this was not it, my periods had also been irregular. So altogether I had been facing a lot. I had also tried…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Contract OF Surrogacy? in the forum Contracts, Insurance & Legal 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey Olivia, I hope you’re doing good. Well, definitely surrogacy is the process that you can help you become a mother. The clinic you have mentioned is the one I am also looking into. They are doing the process legally and are providing the child’s legal documentation. This I think is really important. As in other countries, this has been a major…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Need Advice in the forum Foster Care to Adoption 8 years, 5 months ago
The clinic that I am looking forward to signing up for surrogacy basically invited me for my first free consultation to solve this problem of mine. I was also confused about both these procedures as I wasn’t sure what will ensure that I really am able to become a mother. The doctors were experienced and professional. They after studying my case…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic surrogacy in the forum Budgeting & Financial 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey, Brooklyn, I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure it must have been extremely difficult for you and your family to cop4e up with. My honest advice to you would be to go for surrogacy. Now, finance was definitely an issue for me as well. As I couldn’t even think about getting it from my hometown due to the heavy amount attached…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic How does it feel being a surrogate? in the forum Transfer 8 years, 5 months ago
I think you’re doing an amazing service in helping your sister out. I have a massive respect for all the women who become surrogate and help parents out. I myself have opted for surrogacy as I couldn’t conceive . The clinic I am going to is very particular about the surrogate. They make sure that the surrogate had no past illness or deaseas. As…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic Secondary Infertility in the forum Multiples 8 years, 5 months ago
It is very common to actually have secondary level infertility. I know it must be extremely difficult for you. As people with this infertility aren’t really expecting that this might happen. My really close friend had the same issue. She was able to conceive her first two without any problem. However, when she tried for the third time it won’t…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic so mad in the forum Transfer 8 years, 5 months ago
Hey, Lina, you might be suffering from unexplained infertility. As this is one of the most common reasons for why a lot of females are unable to conceive. However, definitely, you should change your doctor as this was a major problem that I too faced. The doctor I initially visited didn’t even check me up properly. He just prescribed me medication…[Read more]
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monika replied to the topic I am 43.. in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
It is good that you never lost hope. I can completely understand how difficult it would have been for you and your husband to undergo such a difficult situation. I am in the same boat of struggle, I have been told that I have a poor ovarian reserve which means I have a very little chance of conceiving through IVF. Therefore, the clinic I am…[Read more]
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monika started the topic Poor ovarian reserve and TTC in the forum Getting Started 8 years, 5 months ago
After a long ponder over my thoughts I finally decided to write about my infertility. 5 years back when I got married, MY DH and I straight away started TTC. However, month after month no results came. Now I was very irregular with my AF since the teenage years. On the top of everything I also had a severe eating disorder for which I was getting…[Read more]
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