Milan

  • Milan replied to the topic we are losing it in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    If you really want a child you will do anything for it. I will tell you not to give up. It is only the strongest who make it at the end of the line. I know of a couple that tried to conceive for over 12 years. And they later managed it. They are now proud parents. If your husband love you that much he will not let you go. You will go through the…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic so sad in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    Such a story to read. I sympathies with you dear. More than 7 years trying to conceive. I can say that your husband loves you that much. He has been there for you at your lowest times. He should not even leave you yet. I believe it is the care and support that keeps you going. I am also glad that you have decided to share this hear. It will surely…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic I am 43.. in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    I do not know the reason to why you has to wait all that long. To be honest sometimes I am getting amused. Like what was someone doing since their early twenties. I ma not trying to judge you. Because I am shocked that at the age of 42 is when you gave your first attempt. just because your grandma managed to be pregnant at 52 does not mean it will…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic guilty in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    You should stop worrying and start enjoying life. If you keep ion thinking about having a child. Then you will not enjoy what is already in your plate,. You have a loving partner. So you should be appreciative of that. I believe a child will cone at his or her own time. If you keep on thinking about a child it might end up stressing you. And…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic pray for me in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    Seems to me that you have already checked for everything. if the doctors said that everything is well then what’s not adding up? And about the unexplained fertility. I do understand dear that technology has evolved a lot. But unfortunately there are things that cannot still be explained. I do have a friend who was going through the same. She had a…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic naked.. in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    You should not worry what your mother in law says about you. It is your husband that married you and not your mother in law. I do understand that most of them do have issues. They tend to make the burden fall on their daughters in law. But that is not good. Because sometimes maybe the problem is even the husband. But they will just try to cover up…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic 44 years in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    Seems like you are going through a lot. This is the reasons we have such community online. To help others heal. By providing support and care. others do not find it in the normal world. But here regardless of where you are from. You are part of the family. The years have gone so fast. Maybe in your prime years you were busy studying and working.…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic so mad in the forum Transfer 7 years, 5 months ago

    Two failed embryo transfer must be disappointing. Considering that you do not have any other children. That you are wholly waiting for the positive results. Maybe you are suffering from unexplained fertility. That is why the doctor fails to give you the exact reason behind the failed attempts. But whatsoever, that is so bad. You are the one using…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic so tired in the forum Transfer 7 years, 5 months ago

    I never knew that there are people who can go through a lot in life. Having thrombophilia and the others. Well I am fertile and never knew that there are people who go through a hard time. I can say there are strong women out there. On my side. I have never feel any problems with my fertility. Even my babies come when I have not planned for them.…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic stressed in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 5 months ago

    I can say that you have been through a lot dear. The two miscarriages and the down syndrome. I am sorry for all this. But then I can say you are so strong. Others would even have given up in fertility. But you have not. You are still in search for your happiness. Which is something good to say so. Do not give up. I believe that one day things are…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic Pink Is The Color in the forum Baby Showers 7 years, 5 months ago

    i am so happy of you my dear. I can understand the type of anticipation that you are in. The happiness that you are feeling in within. I happy for you. All those years looking for a child. I can say some would have given up. But you did not. And the patients finally paid. Well about baby showers I cannot say that in am good. But since it is a girl…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic BAM! The baby is Here in the forum April 2018 7 years, 5 months ago

    Being a mother is one of the best things. IO am a mother of 4. So i can tell you all the ups and downs. These kids sometimes can be so stressful. You will wish you never had them. But sometimes so cute. You wish you have a million of them. When they are toddlers they can stress you so ,much. You will have a lot to do as a mother. The crying and…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic Frozen Embryo Transfer in the forum Transfer 7 years, 5 months ago

    Sharing your story will surely help other people. I have a sister who has been going through similar cases. In her case it is weak endometrium walls. It has been such a tussle for her. But I told her I would volunteer. I am now in my 40 but think I can help. I will be her surrogate. I have been a surrogate for 6 couples. And I can say I am used to…[Read more]

  • True happiness comes from in within. I like your encouragement. I have a sister who is going through infertility. She is not able to get some services. I can say facing infertility when you are broke is the worst thing. Now that is what my sister is going through. She is currently not working. She had to take a break from her career due to her…[Read more]

  • Milan replied to the topic 5 Years Search in the forum Baby On The Way 7 years, 5 months ago

    5 years searching for a baby. That is long. I must say you area strong woman. On the other side. Balancing your companies and conceiving was tough for you. But I don’t think if endometriosis is caused because of stress. If you be pregnant and having miscarriage maybe that could be enough of an excuse. But not endometriosis. I have had friends who…[Read more]

  • Milan started the topic 40+ years twin love in the forum Multiples 7 years, 6 months ago

    I have a twin who is gay. We get along pretty much. I can even say that his child is mine. We have grown up together at my aunts place. Our parents passed away while we were 6. It was such a painful moment. I remember how devastated I was. Their death affected me more than even my brother. But he is such a strong man. He has been encouraging me…[Read more]

  • I am a mother of 4 children. With this number of children one learns a lot. So my 3rd born is 7 years. She is giving me a lot of pressure. I think most of you who are mothers can understand this. Baby girls tend to be picky. They want things to go their way. I have other 3 children to look after too. So I cannot give her my 100% attention.…[Read more]

  • My brother is a proud father of a 4 year old. so recently he took his child for school. It was his first time in school and the dad expected him to enjoy. But it seems to be complicated. The child is facing some isolation in school. Everyday both his parents drop him off to school. Then they later come and pick him up every evening. This seemed to…[Read more]

  • Milan started the topic Happy dads in the forum Gay Dads 7 years, 6 months ago

    My brother is gay and a dad. He is my twin also. You know that bond that always keeps two siblings together. Ours is much more. Our bond is so strong. We are also the only children in our parents life. It is unfortunate that they both passed away in a tragic accident. My brother was also involved in that accident. He was so lucky that he survived.…[Read more]

  • I am a proud mother of 4 children. I am so fertile and have never gone through any difficulty in fertility. My brother has some issues with fertility. He is gay, but a married man. So when they wanted a child I decided to be their surrogate. His partner was the one who used his sperms. I also donated my eggs to. This way my brother felt like he…[Read more]

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