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Tifanny replied to the topic so tired in the forum Transfer 7 years, 4 months ago
This is why I like it when you consult different doctors. each have a different opinion. That way you ill now what other specialist may have for you. Now focus on what the doctor tells you. Is there an option to avoid the blast? What kind of solution did he offer? And for the thrombophilia. Your friend was right. Ig that was the reason for the…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic stressed in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
You should just be calm. Collect yourself and be optimistic. I don’t think if there is anything to worry about. Believe that things will work your way. If the ultra sound was just fine. Then why keep on feeling negative about it. Even if things will not turn the way you want them too. It is not time to give up. Those who have had issue have fight.…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic so mad in the forum Transfer 7 years, 4 months ago
If its true it is unexplained infertility. Then I am wondering why the FET re not working out for you two. I know that it is one of the best method t use in your case. Maybe you should try another doctor. But next time ensure you have a clinic that serves you best. That way you will be sure of what you are dealing with. Search a clinic that has a…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic naked.. in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
The least thing right now to worry about is your mother in law. Infertility is not hereditary. And further more, it is your husband who married you and not her. Sometimes let things be. Learn to get used that people will just talk. No matter what. You have to be strong and move on. If your husband is with you then you have nothing to worry about.…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic pray for me in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
You have just tried for some months now. Maybe you could be more patient. On average you should wait for a year. Or are you suspicious that you may be going through something. Unless otherwise you could be relax. I have a cousin who is so fertile. When she was married. It took her a year to get pregnant. Not because she was under some medication.…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic guilty in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
There was a time that I felt that way too. It just consumes you. You no longer enjoy sex. You feel like this time round I should be pregnant. Bit you need to relax. You are just from using pills. That means your body may take long to adjust. This differs from one person to another. So on average you should give it a year. Then thereafter you can…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic I am 43.. in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
It seems to me that you do not struggle enough. The only problem in your case is keeping the pregnancy. You had two pregnancy and lost both in a miscarriage. I think that should be the center of everything. Why the miscarriage. I s something wrong with your immune system or something? Or your uterus cannot keep a baby. You have a lot of questions…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic so sad in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
So true. Life is not always fair to everyone. I can say that you have been through a lot. But you never gave up. Battling with thrombophilia must have been a battle itself. But it is better that it was identified. Rather than you could be getting pregnant and losing the children. That could mean you could be going along way. However, with the…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic we are losing it in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
2 years is not that much to complain for. I know of a couple that went 15 years TTC. So let that be your motivation. When you are really in need of something. You will do whatever it takes to accomplish it. Never let lose of your hope for anything. Even if the doctor tells you that there are minimal chances. They are also human and are not 100%…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic 44 years in the forum Getting Started 7 years, 4 months ago
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know how it feels like being in your shoe. But do not give up. I know of clinics that have no age restrictions. But it could have been better if you had frozen your eggs. That way you could be using them right now. However, do not give up. Keep on pursuing your dream. There are a lot of clinics out…[Read more]
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Tifanny started the topic Pink Is The Color in the forum Baby Showers 7 years, 5 months ago
I am expecting my first child. According to the pain that I have gone through. And the hustle of finding this baby. I don’t think if I will be pregnant again. This will be my one and only. So recently I was to my doctors place. The usual baby check up routine. Then I found out that I am expecting a baby girl. I have always wished for a baby girl.…[Read more]
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Tifanny started the topic BAM! The baby is Here in the forum April 2018 7 years, 5 months ago
I am a proud mother as I pin down this. I have been looking for a child mother for long. So when the good news came in, I was so glad. I am now anticipating to hold my bundle of joy. I really don’t know how it feels being a mother. But I already feel the love inside me. I cant wait till I hold my very own in my hands. I ma now 4 months pregnant. I…[Read more]
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Tifanny started the topic Frozen Embryo Transfer in the forum Transfer 7 years, 5 months ago
My life has been a constant struggle. I am glad that I can share it here. I am an expectant mother A proud one in that case. I have been struggling for years to conceive. So now is when I have finally managed it. I think I should share my story with you guys too. Maybe, just maybe it will help someone outside there. I have been suffering from…[Read more]
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Tifanny started the topic True Happiness in the forum Transfer 7 years, 5 months ago
I was diagnosed with endometriosis 5 years ago. Thanks God I am financially stable. Unless otherwise my dream of having my own baby could not come to pass. I am successful woman. So I think it is due to this reason that many people were jealous of me. So when they find out that I had some complications with conceiving. I became their topic of…[Read more]
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Tifanny started the topic 5 Years Search in the forum Baby On The Way 7 years, 5 months ago
Hello beloved friends. I am so glad to be part of this community. However, I have some few things to share. I am a married woman fro 7 years. But I have been looking for a child for the past 5 years. It has been a long journey to say so. With its ups and down. Tiresome and disappointed. I will like to thank my husband. He has been my source of…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic Daughter acts ok at my house but acts out at mothers and grandparents in the forum Toddler 7 years, 5 months ago
Maybe you should be staying with her instead. To me it feels like she is not comfortable at her mothers place. That is why she behaves different. If she is not giving you any problems then take her in. Maybe in the other side she does not get the attention you give her. Sometimes you have to note that children tend to want attention. Like they…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic Help a sister in the forum International Adoption 7 years, 5 months ago
Well this is good that you have shared. There have been a lot of people asking such a question. I once worked for an adoption facilities so I think I can help. From the facility that I worked in. They had rules concerning foreign adoption. I will answer this question depending on how that facility acts. So if someone is a foreigner and wants to…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic Suffering from financial strain in the forum Budgeting & Financial 7 years, 5 months ago
This is so bad. Facing infertility with lack of funds. I have been undergoing infertility for more than 5 years. And I can say it is something that one need money for. Like in my case. I have failed IVF, IUI, ICSA and I had to pay for them. Even the procedure does not success you have to pay. That is where the problem comes in. But if you are…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic In-Laws are not on board with Surrogacy in the forum Family Life 7 years, 5 months ago
I have never been through that scenario but I think I can add my 2 points. I am disappointed that your mother in law feels like she has a final say in your marriage. That is so bad of her. I understand that your husband is her son. But he is now all grown up. That means he can make his own decisions. So he should let him be. I hat when mother in…[Read more]
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Tifanny replied to the topic How does it feel being a surrogate? in the forum Transfer 7 years, 5 months ago
I have never been a surrogate before. But I think the feeling is the same like being pregnant. If you are already a mother then you know how it feels. I am going to be a mother soon. And this is my first pregnancy. So I don’t really feel that bad. Although there are some sickness here and there. Feeling tired more often and much sleepy. It was a…[Read more]
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