https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/members/jessica/activity/ Activity feed for Jessica fields. Sat, 18 Apr 2026 22:56:16 +0000 https://buddypress.org/?v=11.3.1 en-US 30 hourly 2 5b26a867f1780d5b4e3946096ab3678c https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/thanks-for-the-information/page/2/#post-6424 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 14:24:06 +0000 Hello there, how are you? I am also in the same city. I came here to get surrogacy done. My surrogate has been transferred with the embryos. Soon we will get the BFP. I really hope it is a success. Please remember me in your prayers.

]]> a7b0b86cdd42163e7e27786692b51f8e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-14/#post-6415 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 13:47:42 +0000 It depends on you. If you consider surrogacy an acceptable treatment then go for it. Also, check with the place you live in. If adoption is easy then you can adopt. Though if it takes time then surrogacy would be a good choice. Also, you can have a newborn with the help of surrogacy. Adoption does not guarantee this one thing. Ask your husband…[Read more]

]]> 5cc73938f4b2756c136a1e68cb17c66b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ivf-success-rate-with-pcos/page/2/#post-6287 Tue, 28 Aug 2018 15:59:22 +0000 I did some research on this. I don’t have PCOS though. However, I came across some interesting facts. So doctors actually recommend IVF for PCOS. It works really well with it. If anyone here wants to get a child. Even if they have PCOS they can rely on IVF.

]]> 0a7b93ea7ce91de5bb66e05b8f4f5d99 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/introducing-surrogacy-to-children/#post-6268 Tue, 28 Aug 2018 12:48:43 +0000 Well said Tifanny. This is something which bothers almost every Intended parent. I had a very interesting conversation about this with a friend too. She said she would never want to tell her child that he was born through surrogacy. Well, it’s her choice. I really liked your take on this topic. You gave a very interesting idea. We should first…[Read more]

]]> 036221aa38fcffc08a6eb2765864ff5e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/children-and-family/#post-6157 Mon, 27 Aug 2018 07:13:50 +0000 A well-constructed post. It was required. Raising children has indeed become a challenge. I have a daughter and it is so difficult to keep her on tracks. She always wants more. She has become really naughty. God knows how will I tackle her.

]]> 073320be6e818ebf04e856aefd50ee46 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-advice/#post-6156 Mon, 27 Aug 2018 07:06:53 +0000 Very well said, honey. It’s true that surrogacy really works. Congratulations to you as well. You were able to complete your family. All thanks to surrogacy. What did you have? I mean is it a boy or a girl. Or are they twins? I have heard the chances of twins are really high in surrogacy. I really hope I can have twins too. Btw, can you share your…[Read more]

]]> cfd5bb30e0641d741253b2e2348d8791 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/my-journey/page/3/#post-6034 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 13:19:58 +0000 Every story has the same problem. Infertility and barrenness. I also have a chance of having a miscarriage. If I get pregnant. I have stopped the struggle. Just like you, I decided to turn towards infertility treatments. I am in the process of getting surrogacy. The process will take place in Europe. It was feasible and affordable there. You can…[Read more]

]]> 495289df23ea4e8396ca4de04fab9dcb https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/important-qualirties-for-egg-donors/page/2/#post-6033 Sun, 26 Aug 2018 13:11:08 +0000 This was very informative. I learnt a lot of things. I am not sure if I will need it or not. Still, I am gonna take a screenshot. I will ask my clinic about this. Let’s see what they have to say about donor eggs. I am sure I will have to use donor eggs for surrogacy.

]]> 075a1e6665ff31f678a0a06115420c27 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/bringing-the-baby-home/#post-5870 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 10:25:10 +0000 This was a great informative post. I am in the initial stages of surrogacy planning. This really was helpful to me. I will contact my clinic and talk about these things. I hope the laws are the same in Europe. It is where I would be getting the surrogacy done. Thanks for this helpful post.

]]> 558faec55f834b7b6028244a9b5785fc https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/bad-experience-7/#post-5869 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 10:22:44 +0000 I think the post is misleading. How is this possible that there is no other clinic. I think you need to ask for all the details. Please don’t spread negativity. The possibility is you don’t know every detail. I am saying this for a reason. I am not being rude. I am sorry if you don’t like my choice of words. The whole purpose is that people might…[Read more]

]]> 87eaa4e007d78966903603ca7690769b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/hey/#post-5784 Sat, 18 Aug 2018 14:11:21 +0000 Yes, I have heard of this clinic. Is it situated in Europe right? I think I might visit this one. It is convenient for me to travel there. These reviews are a plus point obviously. Let’s see now, how things turn for me. I am really excited to be a mother.

]]> 298b5a71f900df40b26c5d2fa4a35785 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-suggestions-2/page/3/#post-5781 Sat, 18 Aug 2018 14:06:29 +0000 I have my own opinion on things. I think the choice of clinic matters. It is a crucial decision. If you chose a wrong one. Your life can be risky. Especially with IVF. You will be putting yourself at risk. I am glad I had assistance. My mother in law did the research. She spent 4 weeks on research. Then came up with a clinic. I have to admit here.…[Read more]

]]> e8c861e2793b8a21b99a36f791eeb3e4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/my-journey/page/2/#post-5704 Tue, 14 Aug 2018 11:03:25 +0000 My deepest condolences for the loss.No one can understand it. It’s true. We can’t know your pain. Though we can help. We can make it better. I mean why didn’t you go for a treatment? There are so many options. You can opt for IUI. There is IVF. Surrogacy is the last option too if you cannot go for the other two. You can still have a baby. You can…[Read more]

]]> e919cdb0accfc8cb13e995f7f9af7198 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-testimonial/#post-5650 Mon, 13 Aug 2018 09:05:05 +0000 This is a beautiful testimonial. I don’t know I have this thing for these. It always makes me emotional. Maybe because I have been there. After being homeless for 4 years I found my happiness. This is why I support fertility treatments. I am a strong spokesperson for them. I try to help as many people possible. I want everyone to get the help I…[Read more]

]]> 73ae88d0d99c0d23d2aa22712cecf2e3 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-suggestions-3/#post-5573 Tue, 07 Aug 2018 15:54:30 +0000 We are all here to help you. Yes, I will explain everything to you. So surrogacy is something where a surrogate mother carries the baby for you. There are two kinds. One is traditional. The other one is gestational. In gestational surrogacy, you use donor eggs. You can even donate your eggs and sperm. This will mean the baby will be genetically…[Read more]

]]> 2febe4c2b95030bb08bfebcdbd580bcc https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-9/#post-5333 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 15:38:16 +0000 I think it depends. It depends from country to country. You are right law has an effect on this too. We first decided to go to India. Surrogacy there was very cheap. I mean the cost was very low. I never imagined it to be that low. Though when I visited the place. I was horrified. They are legit exploiting the women. The surrogates are very young…[Read more]

]]> b80c6a7df211dde0ea5ff35bee35ac68 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-2/page/2/#post-5269 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 16:41:00 +0000 This is so painful. I feel so bad for you. I am so sorry you have to go through this. My deepest condolences to you. I have advice for you. I belong to a middle-class family as well. I thought I would never be able to have a baby. Because you know the treatments are so expensive. Then I came across this clinic in Europe. Trust me they are…[Read more]

]]> 4059565db1be5015e346e8ec8db7f500 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/battling-with-infertility/#post-5234 Thu, 26 Jul 2018 16:01:12 +0000 I find the most interesting posts on this forum. They make me emotional. Maybe precisely because it is the truth. I agree with this post. I have been through this. I was so envious. I got frustrated due to infertility. I stopped meeting my sister. Just because she got pregnant. While I waited for 5 years. She gave birth twice. I was barren as a…[Read more]

]]> 41d8daebbda8a2f021e397764d0cabf8 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surro-babies/#post-5202 Wed, 25 Jul 2018 13:58:28 +0000 I am really thankful for this post. It is so honest. You are absolutely right. I second your each and every word. This should be done. I was advised the same. Initially, I was not ready for Surrogacy. For the very same reason. I was afraid and worried. I didn’t know if the child will accept it. Then I referred to a clinic. It is in Europe. The…[Read more]

]]> 93aefe909982641486ced1204eabf984 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-cost-internationally/#post-5184 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 16:35:48 +0000 This is well explained. I loved how you compared everything. This shows your vast knowledge on the subject. Though I would like to mention something here. I also compared the whole procedure. I compared India, Europe, and the USA. Since I live in the USA, it was my first priority. I would not have to bear the traveling charges. I found a clinic…[Read more]

]]> 14e6ee8046c93e94e5e74b4b62ec3ead https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/transfer/#post-5105 Mon, 23 Jul 2018 12:31:09 +0000 This is very dangerous. I can’t believe this. How can they practice like this? This is getting out of hands now. I thought they were just not replying to emails. I am so sorry you had to see this. Now obviously you will be looking for another clinic. There is one near to the one you went to. Though it is totally opposite. People all over the world…[Read more]

]]> 4cb0b692ae5514cde93bd2fa6e209c6f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/bad-experience-6/#post-5031 Sat, 21 Jul 2018 12:04:00 +0000 This sounds so horrible. I never thought this can happen. How are they even operating still? Shouldn’t there be a case against them? If I were at your place I would have definitely filed a case against them. Anyhow, I feel bad for you. All your hopes got crushed. I have a suggestion for you. There is this amazing clinic in Europe. I think the same…[Read more]

]]> b7d8d3fb9dde8ffa36dee77ba3d9ac06 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/warning/#post-5009 Fri, 20 Jul 2018 16:39:07 +0000 I am really sorry you had to go through all this. You are already suffering. Not getting a reply makes it worse. Honey, life does not end here. You have your whole life ahead. What if this one clinic didn’t reply. It is their loss. You should not worry. There so many other great ones. You know in fact there is one in the same city. This clinic in…[Read more]

]]> 65fd1d7c1cac9d337ae86fe23f0bfe49 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-suggestions-2/#post-4944 Wed, 18 Jul 2018 16:33:49 +0000 It will depend on her. If she wants to give birth. I think IVF is best. If she is unable to do so. Or she wants to just have the baby. She can opt for surrogacy. It will ensure she gets a baby at any cost. While IVF can be stressful. It is more painful. The chances of failure are high too. Now she has to make the call. She can look for a reliable…[Read more]

]]> a71fa6729a0fef57c20625335548251f https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/for-infertile-women-in-england/#post-4888 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 15:51:49 +0000 Thank you for this post honey. I guess this is the same clinic I have heard of too. They are known to be really great. You are right. They are very professional. They will treat you with care. They listen to your problems as if it’s their own. I have read many testimonials. All of them speak greatly about them. It mentioned how this clinic is the…[Read more]

]]> 2d8de73aad1ffc42381c109dab164d3e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/bad-experience-3/#post-4822 Sat, 14 Jul 2018 15:21:41 +0000 I am sorry to hear this. Adonis is not good with replying, Their communication is well known to be flawed. I think it is for your own good. Imagine the horror. If you go there and start the process. Then they don’t reply you. It would be worse. I think it is good you didn’t get stuck. Now you can surely look for other clinics. You live in the…[Read more]

]]> 329afac1d00c9463660b971eac052af1 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/depressed/#post-4778 Thu, 12 Jul 2018 16:00:57 +0000 I am so sorry for your loss honey. I know nothing can soothe the pain. Though I am glad about one thing. Your husband is there to help you. Do you know the reason for the MC? If you can mention it then it will easy to help you out. My sister went to this clinic Lotus. She went there for her IVF. The procedure was not explained to her in detail.…[Read more]

]]> f3f74987ea45d065744556e7f7be5c11 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/infertility/#post-4730 Wed, 11 Jul 2018 13:57:29 +0000 This is awful. I can’t believe this. How are they still operating then? Aren’t there any quality and health checks done there? This is horrible. I heard such great reviews about this clinic in the same vicinity. My best friend went there. She went there to get her surrogacy done. She was so happy with the clinic. The doctor became her friend…[Read more]

]]> b655402c042a93fa8121c15fa76ee3ab https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/adoption-problems/#post-4630 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 14:39:30 +0000 Well, I guess you were too emotional while writing this. Though I got an idea about what happened. I have heard about Lotus too. There is no point in discussing them. I mean it is waste of time. I am glad you went to Europe. Surrogacy is an amazing invention. You are right. Sometimes parents are not rightful with their adopted children. I don’t…[Read more]

]]> 4406d93f3b906a7e4b23c20d8ddeaa0b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-and-law/page/2/#post-4628 Mon, 09 Jul 2018 14:32:05 +0000 I loved how you explained everything here. I almost follow all your posts. I love how you raise awareness. I second each every word. In the light of this post, I would like to share an incident. I read an article about how a clinic was lazy to get the legal procedures done. This one mistake of Lotus ended up in a disaster. The surrogate ran with…[Read more]

]]> 1a7de7e0b6e6d5136bd622b80a0a109c https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-some-guidance/#post-4414 Sat, 07 Jul 2018 17:19:16 +0000 I am so sorry you had to go through all this. It must be a tough time for you. Your husband did not do good with you too. He should have supported you. Though you can still go for other options. Chose a fertility clinic You can opt for Surrogacy there. Though don’t opt for Adonis. They won’t reply on time.

]]> 688ffebbdc159feb0fd24e7b84b5b4f5 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/fertility-clinics/#post-4413 Sat, 07 Jul 2018 17:14:01 +0000 I have been reading such posts as well. I don’t know what is wrong with Adonis and Lotus. You are right. A clinic is a place you look towards to get your issues resolved. There is a need for absolute trust between the IP and the clinic. Though I don’t see that happening in the light of the recent events. I remember my sister went to this clinic.…[Read more]

]]> 8b62cccf9de9a54bf2e2cb2484eae3ca https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/what-to-do-3/#post-4259 Thu, 05 Jul 2018 16:44:24 +0000 Well, I haven’t heard any good thing about Adonis. So I think people here are honest. You can look out for reliable clinics. Search for clinics in Europe. Obviously, exclude Adonis from it. I hope you get a good clinic to go with. A reliable clinic will reply within a few days.

]]> be0560f84efa3d85d601646cdeeebc8a https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/clinic-suggestion/page/2/#post-4255 Thu, 05 Jul 2018 16:39:34 +0000 Thank you, everyone, for taking out time. I am grateful for each and every comment. It means a lot. Now, I was going through the comments. So what most of you suggested was to not go with Adonis right? Well, you guys are right. I emailed them. They haven’t replied yet. This means everything said is true. Now I am truce again. Can you guys be more…[Read more]

]]> 67968026c60ffc1f09dddaa25ae6a6dc https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-ir-ivf/page/2/#post-4084 Tue, 03 Jul 2018 17:09:51 +0000 It is natural to get confused. It is not an easy decision. You have to think it through. That is why it is taking time. Now see you have to write down pros and cons of each. What exactly do you want? Do you want a newborn? Or you just need a child. Because it is difficult to have a baby through Adoption. You will hardly get any. Plus it will take…[Read more]

]]> e6ad4c823263269a6b72174d00e97035 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/how-it-works/#post-4083 Tue, 03 Jul 2018 17:04:33 +0000 I guess the same goes for the traditional surrogacy. This was informative anyhow. It is important to discuss laws related to surrogacy and adoption. It is not common knowledge. I am gonna make a video on this issue too. Thank you for giving me an idea though. Loads of love for you.

]]> 7597e8ce2b467a993625212c590cb892 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/help-please/ Thu, 28 Jun 2018 17:01:12 +0000 Hello, there beautiful ladies. I hope you all are in good health. I want you to help me out with something. I am looking for a reasonable clinic. Please don’t suggest Adonis to me. They are hell expensive. They already cost me an airplane ticket too. They deceived me on the cost. I flew there. Just for my friend. I wanted to see if everything is…[Read more]

]]> a34f06942fda3fef1450e0575faae764 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/clinic-suggestion/ Thu, 28 Jun 2018 16:58:43 +0000 Hello everyone. I hope you all are doing good. I need some help here. Can anyone tell me what does an International surrogacy cost? My friend lives in Australia. So please advise according to that. She looked upon Adonis’s website. Though it was an expensive plan. Can you suggest anything else?

]]> c9bcb1e8d50e9b45ed02a4d5dfda1f95 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/regards-lotus-clinic/page/2/#post-3493 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 15:07:52 +0000 This is not new. Many people have reported same incidents. I think they don’t want new people. They have earned enough maybe. Or probably they are a scam. My Gay friend emailed then. After waiting for 4 months. They bothered to reply. Do you know what was the reply? After wasting his 4 months, they said they don’t cater to gay couples. I mean…[Read more]

]]> d0f9e46ec89fd3223bb07af2eb49e1b1 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/my-ttc/#post-3492 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 15:05:11 +0000 This sounds like a plan. I hope things are in your favor. It can be overwhelming. Just say persistent. Also which clinic did you chose? Just don’t go for Adonis. They don’t have good reviews. You wouldn’t wanna waste your time.

]]> 03a1f845cd942bcbfe987294e1d5b25c https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/benefits-of-becoming-a-surrogate/#post-3188 Thu, 21 Jun 2018 16:48:15 +0000 You are absolutely right. Being a surrogate is a noble act. Just one thing. Just don’t change your mind at the end of time. I mean IP’s get attached with the baby too. They tie hopes to it. Just don’t run away with the baby at the end time. I was reading about a case that happened at this clinic Lotus. The surrogate ran with the baby. It was so…[Read more]

]]> d0572dd93e14a56877f8d43078c57954 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/update/page/2/#post-3187 Thu, 21 Jun 2018 16:46:07 +0000 I just really hope she didn’t choose Lotus. I mean I have heard really bad reviews. There was a friend too. She had a very traumatizing experience. The doctor tried to be over friendly. She got so scared. I mean IVF is already so painful. It is so stressful. Onn that the doctor was very clingy and weird. She regrets her decision of going to…[Read more]

]]> 3895038e3063975c3da29c4f0cf816cd https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/tell-us-about-your-ivf/page/2/#post-3143 Wed, 20 Jun 2018 18:20:00 +0000 Well IVF does have a high success rate. Though it can fail too. It is like a gamble. You never know what can happen. Just be careful with the clinic you chose. That is most crucial. A good doctor can be the key to success. An inexperienced doctor can be a disaster. Like it was for my sister. She went to lotus for IVF. Damn it was the worst…[Read more]

]]> 175f21b205fb0207adf50f21884f14f8 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ovarian-reserve/#post-3016 Thu, 14 Jun 2018 17:23:34 +0000 I don’t know what to say. You have seen such terrible times. It must have been so so painful. To see the twins go away. I am very sorry about this. I wish I could hug you right now. More power to you.

]]> 020672cbabf560621f14da2f17804493 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-clinics/#post-3015 Thu, 14 Jun 2018 17:21:33 +0000 This is another review about Adonis I have read today. I don’t know what’s happening to this world. This is horrible. Playing with innocent patients is just not done. I mean she must have been so horrified. She traveled all the way to there. To find out that things are not as she thought they were. I feel very bad for her. My condolence to her. I…[Read more]

]]> 125c3db745941bc840301addee0f1ad1 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/living-with-pcos/#post-2924 Tue, 12 Jun 2018 18:17:27 +0000 This is very true. PCOS is already an issue. Being overweight makes it worse. It reduces your chances of conception. Even without POCOS. It is good to be in a healthy situation. Even if you wanna go for infertility treatment. So I guess controlling weight is very important.

]]> ff378ffc0b7f8af9ad95b9f272aa29c9 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/our-baby-is-a-year-old/#post-2921 Tue, 12 Jun 2018 18:15:24 +0000 Congratulations to you on getting the baby. How is she now? Happy Birthday to her. May she gets all the happiness in the world. Is she naughty? I am sure she must be the apple of your eyes. I have a question now. Where did you get the surrogacy done? I am researching on potential places and clinics. I wanna help a cousin. He is looking for…[Read more]

]]> dec552661b9ac5dea1bc797dd6a07835 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/40-years-twin-love/#post-2850 Sat, 09 Jun 2018 17:42:25 +0000 Well, twins stories are more or less similar. There is special binding between them. Maybe because they are more connected. I was scrolling through my news feed. I remember reading a story. It was quite similar to this one. There were twins. One of them was gay. Who got married recently. He wanted to have a baby. With his genes. So his partner…[Read more]

]]> e3ce415eeac0b50993b049be3ad5cb67 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/triple-trouble/#post-2849 Sat, 09 Jun 2018 17:40:21 +0000 To some, it is a blessing. To some, it becomes a headache. I am still trying to absorb the situation. She can manage the triplets. I mean she can have another nanny. This way there will be three people. Adoption is a stupid idea. People die for a child. She got three.

]]> 5a2e9f559af99605e181a12e79fc0662 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/intro/#post-2769 Thu, 07 Jun 2018 23:11:28 +0000 You have chosen the right thing. Surrogacy will solve your problem. It will give you a baby. I am sure it will bring light in your life. Now I would suggest few things. Dont look for independent surrogates. You will have to take care of the legal things. It becomes a mess. It is better to get in touch with a clinic. This way there is a third party…[Read more]

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