https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/members/woods/activity/ Activity feed for Stormi. Mon, 13 Apr 2026 17:48:18 +0000 https://buddypress.org/?v=11.3.1 en-US 30 hourly 2 12c428186b9c521b364dbc9e055065d4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/good-news-after-infertility/#post-6602 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 11:12:25 +0000 I totally understand where you are coming from! My husband and I are now blessed with 2 boys. But it took a long time to get our second! We were able to get pregnant with our first son right away. We weren’t even trying!!! When we went to try for a second, it took 7 years before we were successful! It was very difficult because as you said you…[Read more]

]]> a3f5c19ef27f2aa49e6a8e9c511d3941 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/some-courage-for-those-who-think-everything-is-lost/#post-6601 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 11:07:14 +0000 Yes dear, I think other women out there really needed to hear that. In making sense of and sharing what I’ve learned about disenfranchised grief (grief that is not acknowledged by society), I began to actively mourn the losses we’d endured and found peace. By giving voice to my experience, I tapped into a well of strength and resilience and cul…[Read more]

]]> 944c7588e36bc77c5878763db9a3a1b8 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/great-advice/#post-6600 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 11:05:08 +0000 Believe me, ill be praying for your success. Often it seems as if women have to carry the heavier load when dealing with infertility. Women go to most of the doctor appointments, have most of the procedures, and seem to feel the emptiness of the womb most acutely. Men often seem reduced to bystanders and can feel helpless to support and protect…[Read more]

]]> 22cc8a8a1c74db1253d0b105371af17b https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/bringing-the-baby-home/page/2/#post-6599 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 11:02:57 +0000 don’t get down on yourself if you feel awkward and unsure when you first come home. Babies can sense when someone around them is tense or nervous so try to relax and go with the flow as you to get to know this new little person. Study her neck, her eye brows, and her chubby little knees. Take in that new baby smell. Lean on your spouse, your f…[Read more]

]]> b5af1ed7f21f7461c4efffede515b7b3 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-and-adoption/#post-6598 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:58:50 +0000 One advantage of gestational surrogacy is the possibility that one or both intended parents can be biologically connected to their child. The intended parents’ eggs and/or sperm can be used to create the embryo, which is then medically transferred to the surrogate’s uterus. This biological relationship makes surrogacy a popular option for fam…[Read more]

]]> 42a25203bcaa366398962840f91338fa https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/dealing-with-childrens-misbehaviour/ Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:53:22 +0000 Enforce your own boundaries, not those of the child. For example, if you want quiet after eight o’clock, enforce that quiet. Don’t force your child into bed. My son — he is now five — started going to bed without any problems, after I made clear to him that I won’t bend a finger for him after eight. He had to go to bed without me reading to him…[Read more]

]]> 4acf5994a294abf1f9f2c3c16f0c1b92 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/daughter-acts-ok-at-my-house-but-acts-out-at-mothers-and-grandparents/#post-6596 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:49:21 +0000 Around the age of 4 to 6, all children develop a sense of self and self-efficacy. From the perspective of the parents, children that were easy to direct before now become contrary. At the same time a child that age cannot express her frustrations well without resorting to tears or. If the frustration is bad, a tantrum. Around the age of 6 or 7,…[Read more]

]]> 1cb26d962b4cef1b858965ee2ae666d2 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/can-diapers-cause-rashes/#post-6595 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:46:39 +0000 Diaper rash is a common form of inflamed skin experienced by most children during their diaper wearing years. There are several factors that can cause diaper rash, but the primary cause of diaper rash is prolonged exposure to moisture on the skin. Excessive moisture on the skin makes it more easily affected by friction, which can be caused by the…[Read more]

]]> 5cdef3f76d4daf9b3ba3b3306fc303b5 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/creating-time-for-spouse-after-a-newborn/ Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:43:36 +0000 Be selective about what outside commitments you make. Be willing to say no to friends, family, work events, and so forth. Your time as a couple is so limited that you must first take into account the amount of time the two of you have together before planning outside engagements. Avoid over-committing, and set priorities for your time. There are…[Read more]

]]> 89780a25375f6b6f0a39a976c63e8eba https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/life-as-a-first-time-parent/ Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:41:24 +0000 The new stresses that flood into new parents’ lives seem unending. You are now dealing with identifying your new roles as mom and dad. This happens at a time when you most likely had barely gotten the hang of being husband and wife. You are also learning the new skills of infant care and parenting. And you are physically drained by the n…[Read more]

]]> d9df6a4ebc286c31c0d60eeca8211811 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/coping-after-your-firts-bornbaby/ Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:38:52 +0000 After your first baby is born, what’s really going to change? I can answer that question in one word: everything! And the changes start as soon as you either decide you are ready to have children or find out that you are pregnant. Your communication skills will be put to the test in this stage. Your skills will prove essential in your adjustment a…[Read more]

]]> 8db8636910410da7b5be6af5ee4fa067 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/life-after-a-newborn/#post-6591 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:37:43 +0000 Your parenting styles cancel each other out. It’s nice to think you’d share child-rearing philosophies. But it’s often hard to predict how you’ll feel about sleep, food, and discipline until you’re smack in the middle of your fourth night up with baby. This is not the ideal time to discover that while you favor a sleep-training method that lets…[Read more]

]]> 36a374a6b8bcac6b0e9c1a039bdd7659 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/milk-pumping-tips/ Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:28:05 +0000 It’s no surprise that moms often decide to wean when they go back to work. Pumping at the office can be stressful (not to mention a logistical challenge). And even if you build up a freezer full of milk during maternity leave. The stash will start to dwindle quickly. However, there is another option: Have your baby drink formula during the day but…[Read more]

]]> f1e20099256f249772a600414428a84d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/when-you-aint-making-enough-milk/ Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:24:32 +0000 In general, the more you breastfeed, the more milk you’ll produce. But if you get off to a relatively rocky start with nursing — whether it’s because you and your baby are separated in the hospital for longer than normal, your child isn’t latching on well, or another reason. Establishing an adequate milk supply can be a big challenge. Even when…[Read more]

]]> cc61a490c3deb98fc0121e667d86c9b8 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/formula-recommendations/#post-6588 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:14:03 +0000 If you cannot nurse, then pump milk in replacement of the nursing. If you are introducing formula because your baby doesn’t seem to be getting enough breast milk, realize, of course, that she may consume more with a bottle than with the breast. This may mean that you won’t need to breastfeed her in the traditional two-and-a-half hours after the…[Read more]

]]> 432bdd204b4b1808b2151fd76b7906c0 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/second-baby/#post-6587 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:08:55 +0000 There are a few surrogates that have completed the process a second and sometimes a third time. If somebody has a good experience and they enjoy the process, it’s not uncommon that they will do it again – sometimes it will be for another family, or it could be a sibling project for the same family. If the intended parent had one child and they wou…[Read more]

]]> a511c80161494742aa75964ed9a9b114 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-8/page/4/#post-6586 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 10:08:34 +0000 Many women of my generation are starting a family later than, perhaps, our mothers did. And it is often a challenge to get pregnant or carry a pregnancy for a variety of reasons. The gestational surrogacy option lets you have your own biological child, safely carried and delivered by a woman that already had a healthy pregnancy. If you are serious…[Read more]

]]> 8d3e8df618b7cd74612ec0cc83915476 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/worried-about-my-newborn/#post-6585 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 09:58:33 +0000 Your baby is a sensory being! His vision is able to focus at just 18cm from his face – that means he can see your expression when you cuddle or feed him. His hearing is tuned to pick up the sound of a human voice more than any other sound in his environment. He’s even sensitive to the smell of your breastmilk. All this adds up to him knowing jus…[Read more]

]]> 8a09c73e2c30e33e04924f087f12b3f3 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/considering-adoption-for-my-baby/#post-6584 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 09:53:48 +0000 There is no single reason why birthmothers choose to put their baby up for adoption. That’s because every birthmother is unique and each adoption has it’s own set of circumstances. Consider these common reasons before making a decision. It’s safe, confidential, and free. Financial Abilities. Can you afford to provide for yourself and a baby? Lack…[Read more]

]]> df68d69b6211f91e6e423c81946974e8 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/when-is-the-best-time-to-start-potty-training/#post-6583 Sat, 01 Sep 2018 09:49:04 +0000 Diapers are part of your life, day in, day out, for so long that it’s hard to imagine not needing them anymore. It seems like the day when your child will walk into the bathroom, pee or poop, wipe, wash hands, and walk back out without you even knowing it is a long way off. And yet, that day is coming. And it will be as glorious as it has been in…[Read more]

]]> 9142bc07a3aacb100c3e6e23d126efba https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/tips-when-moving-your-kids-schools/#post-5173 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:45:42 +0000 It’s quite common for children to move schools. It’s also normal for children to resist change and feel stressed about going to a new school. So if your child is moving schools, the best thing you can do is prepare your child for the change. You can do this by involving your child as much as you can in the process of choosing and moving sch…[Read more]

]]> 5cf5dd5e22dac82a65a41880f235179a https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/kids-coping-with-moving-schools/#post-5172 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:43:47 +0000 The decision to move may be out of your hands, perhaps due to a job transfer or financial issues. Even if you’re not happy about the move, try to maintain a positive attitude about it. During times of transition, a parent’s moods and attitudes can greatly affect kids, who may be looking for reassurance. Discussing the Move With Kids No matter what…[Read more]

]]> 203914569f6100bd959bcc26ef3cad93 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surro-babies/ Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:40:51 +0000 As intended parents, you should view your discussion of surrogacy as an ongoing conversation rather than a one-time talk. The more information you can give to your child, the stronger their understanding of surrogacy (and in turn, their sense of identity) is going to be. If you are struggling or need additional suggestions for talking with your…[Read more]

]]> a230880db07fd6fe345b433f968093db https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/experience-with-surrogacy/page/4/#post-5168 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:38:13 +0000 It is important to understand that sometimes, nothing you can say or do will change how others view surrogacy; some people will simply refuse to be supportive. Reasons for this range from religious beliefs to financial views, to people merely stuck in old-fashioned customs. Although some opinions can be hurtful, it is best to answer a negative…[Read more]

]]> 760f0c151a8f6f5b61524de48e1b0946 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/this-clinic-sucks/page/3/#post-5167 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:35:54 +0000 A good solid agreement will clearly include all of the rights, as well as the responsibilities of both the surrogate and the intended parents of the child. It should also encompass any medical, psychological, and compensation issues. Once an agreement is in place, all parties should be happy with such, as well as with the consequences, should any…[Read more]

]]> 44065d011a8b7d03f642dbcbf9018e8c https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/battling-with-infertility/ Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:34:14 +0000 One of the worst things you can do while you’re dealing with infertility is to keep your emotions bottled up inside. It’s unhealthy to try to hide or ignore your feelings, and it can lead to greater resentment and more emotional difficulties down the road. Sometimes, when you allow yourself the chance to break down and let it all out, it can be…[Read more]

]]> 7cdc1477286250253458691d6be95045 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-clinics/page/5/#post-5165 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:32:51 +0000 No matter where you are in your infertility journey, it’s important to recognize that these feelings are completely normal. Although they may not make you feel like yourself, they are an important part of your journey to accepting your infertility and moving forward with your family-building process. However, as you probably know, coping with i…[Read more]

]]> 6124f4099a379f371e5f26a934b978dd https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/need-some-guidance/page/4/#post-5164 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:30:44 +0000 Why Accepting Infertility is Crucial Before Starting the Surrogacy Process. The first step of us doing so is making sure that those who are interested in starting the surrogacy process are dealing with their infertility properly and preparing for conquering infertility. We know how important it is to start the emotional process of surrogacy from a…[Read more]

]]> bdd2fd7d2a8f9edfa58d5ef01e01ab68 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/bad-experience-6/page/2/#post-5163 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:23:53 +0000 Surrogacy is one of life’s most exciting journeys for both IPs and Surrogates alike. The joy felt during this thrilling time period is monumental, something you will no doubt want to share with those closest to you. Unfortunately, as many Surrogates and IPs have found, not everyone will be able or willing to share in your enthusiasm. Many p…[Read more]

]]> 45e4068cb49ee34dd668abf8ba93a49e https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/help-please/page/3/#post-5162 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:22:18 +0000 For those who decide that surrogacy is the right option for building a family, it is important to obtain legal services throughout the surrogacy process. An attorney needs to be retained to create a contract between the intended parents and the surrogate, often referred to as the surrogacy agreement. IVF (in vitro fertilization) clinics require a…[Read more]

]]> cffe1c3aa26582e798f16ceaf0d92fc4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-cost-internationally/#post-5161 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:21:23 +0000 A surrogacy agency interviews and evaluates women who would like to be gestational surrogates in order to verify that a woman is in good physical and mental health. This evaluation process is one of the most important reasons for using a surrogacy agency. Surrogates who are matched up with people who cannot have a baby will verify whether they are…[Read more]

]]> 5109cd99c54487b77be4a4bb98a8e6f4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-benefits/page/2/#post-5160 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:13:57 +0000 Every surrogacy is different, and each surrogate may walk away from her experience with different benefits and rewards. However, each surrogacy is life-changing, and there is something to be gained from every journey. Here are some of the main ways surrogacy can benefit these amazing women and their families: Surrogates enjoy a deep sense of…[Read more]

]]> 8dde370bda23c0a116b3b0321a615a75 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/surrogacy-benefits-on-surrogates/ Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:08:38 +0000 Here are some of the surrogacy advantages for surrogates: Having a sense of purpose: Many surrogates choose to help intended parents because the sense of personal satisfaction and pride they receive knowing they have changed a family’s life and helped them achieve their dreams. Creating a bond with the intended parents: Surrogates share their p…[Read more]

]]> 0332b89044e4a53016d8257b38265661 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/i-decided-to-help/page/5/#post-5158 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:06:25 +0000 The advantages of surrogacy are clear to the hundreds of families who have been created in this special way. Here are just a few surrogacy benefits that intended parents enjoy: Surrogacy allows infertile couples, single people and members of the LGBT community to become parents when they may not be able to have children otherwise. In most cases,…[Read more]

]]> 57f98732118cb4e281a801af6aac74dd https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ttc-and-surrogacy-2/page/5/#post-5157 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 13:02:37 +0000 Surrogacy is fulfilling, for both the parents as well as the surrogate. For the parents, the feeling is a sense of completeness from a new family member. For the surrogate, the feeling is one of pride from having provided the parents with a baby. Surrogates around the world are strong, selfless women who delight at giving hope and opportunity to…[Read more]

]]> 6d9e6121e2a690ef19f0db89c54ee3d9 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/loosing-weight-with-pcos/#post-5156 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 12:58:11 +0000 If you’ve gained weight recently, try not to worry. In some cases, gaining a few pounds may even be normal or beneficial. No matter what your situation is, it’s best to handle your weight gain with a positive mindset. Determine if your weight gain is healthy or if there are other underlying factors that might affect your health. Developing a p…[Read more]

]]> 4a3472b6f33d95626f5e78ef64a3c2bf https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/pregnancy-waiting-period/#post-5155 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 12:50:15 +0000 Studies have also shown that women who conceive less than six months after giving birth may have a higher risk for complications such as a ruptured uterus or a premature or low-birth weight baby. You’ll need some time to adjust to your new life as a parent, too, before you add another baby into the mix. By giving yourself plenty of time to heal…[Read more]

]]> 31413dac2e2cfd9e1cfa8f103b803b61 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/weight-loss-tips/ Tue, 24 Jul 2018 12:44:12 +0000 Losing pounds doesn’t have to be torture. These tips are simple to integrate into your day-to-day routine, and all are enthusiastically backed by nutritionists and you’ll be thinner and healthier in days. Next time your mind gets stuck on a certain food, call a friend and redirect your brain by asking how her day’s going. Research shows that…[Read more]

]]> dd0cc984cd12feeec88368014a476738 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/living-with-pcos/page/2/#post-5153 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 12:40:19 +0000 Grazing between meals used to be on the weight-loss hit list. But nutritionists now know that it’s better to satisfy a craving with healthy grub than ignore it and risk a junk-food binge later. The best picks are filling, protein-packed snacks, such as one stick of string cheese, a tablespoon of peanut butter on a piece of fruit, or a medium-size…[Read more]

]]> 22ab44e26d4a5aadc4280890b93bdad5 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/postpartum-body-tips/ Tue, 24 Jul 2018 12:25:18 +0000 You may not be feeling very attractive in your after-baby body. Weight gain, stretch marks, and large, hard, leaky breasts may have you feeling a little self-conscious. Some tips to help you out can help. Eat a well-balanced diet, so you can get all the nutrition you need while you’re breastfeeding. Making healthy choices will give you more energy…[Read more]

]]> e807e5af512cb905806113dda3a4f7f3 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/does-breastfeeding-affect-sex/#post-5151 Tue, 24 Jul 2018 12:22:07 +0000 It’s possible that breastfeeding will not affect your sex life at all. But with the addition of a new family member to take care of, along with all of the recent changes to your body, it’s more likely that you and your partner will have to make a few adjustments. While some nursing mothers are anxious to get back to the physical relationship that…[Read more]

]]> 2dc1921df0afa6640db7f180d43e0bf9 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/tons-of-questions/#post-2090 Sat, 12 May 2018 16:00:40 +0000 IVM is a revolutionary fertility treatment developed to provide a safer and a cheaper alternative to conventional IVF. In Vitro Maturation (IVM) is a relatively new procedure similar to in vitro fertilization (IVF). Yet with a notable difference. IVF utilizes a regimen of medications to bring a patient’s eggs to maturity before they are removed…[Read more]

]]> c29ccfc9730461a7ab2e71dd7b4bbd74 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ivf-clinic-success-rate/ Sat, 12 May 2018 15:57:04 +0000 It is important to know the the success rates of clinics that you are considering. The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) mandates that all IVF clinics report their statistics annually. Note that it takes two years for the CDC rates to become available. And, therefore, it is possible that the published data may not be representative of an IVF…[Read more]

]]> 86bad79900a9931d277fcb1547d8a6b1 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/looking-for-a-fertility-clinic/#post-2087 Sat, 12 May 2018 15:54:33 +0000 If you’re struggling with infertility and have decided to get help from a fertility clinic. You want to make sure that the one you choose is reputable. Has high success rates and offers the technology and services you’re looking for. Perhaps you’ve asked friends for referrals, but the Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology is the place to lo…[Read more]

]]> f7160c060517dbe0c24681988a3388ae https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/benefits-of-telling-children-where-they-are-from/ Sat, 12 May 2018 15:51:32 +0000 Many psychologists feel strongly that children have the right to know their stories and have learned from adoption research and experience that a child’s knowledge of his or her origins is important to developing a healthy sense of identity, trust and self-esteem. Here are some reasons to talk with your child about his or her birth through s…[Read more]

]]> 977e23dd09b418ab7181b39326b773be https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/telling-your-child-they-are-a-surro-baby/#post-2084 Sat, 12 May 2018 15:48:09 +0000 Many parents are somewhat uncomfortable discussing conception and birth with their children . And when a child’s birth story involves the social, emotional, medical and legal complexities of surrogacy. The conversation can seem especially overwhelming. However, surrogacy is an important part of your child’s story. And experts agree that it is imp…[Read more]

]]> 952e80197339547627f0339489b6c9f4 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/looking-for-advice/page/2/#post-2082 Sat, 12 May 2018 15:42:43 +0000 Gay couples wanting to have a baby can through gestational surrogacy. They will require an egg donor. A surrogate. And IVF treatment in order to build a family. IVF is an integral part of family building for LGBT couples using a fertility clinic. It is used for lesbian couples who are having trouble conceiving through IUI. And for gay couples who…[Read more]

]]> bb371f6dd4c6cc8b2f71b8dfbbae91f1 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/pcos-fertility-diet/ Sat, 12 May 2018 15:38:17 +0000 Eating a specific PCOS Fertility Diet is one of the best things you can do to improve your chances of becoming pregnant. Eating a specific PCOS Fertility Diet is one of the best things you can do to improve your chances of becoming pregnant.The biggest part of the problem with PCOS is insulin resistance. Resistance to insulin increases the…[Read more]

]]> e4bb2df234b7aaad3ccb51422abda486 https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/ivf-success-rate-with-pcos/#post-2078 Sat, 12 May 2018 15:36:29 +0000 Fertility drives many women to their PCOS diagnosis. Then questions swirl about the challenges of becoming pregnant. Maintaining a healthy pregnancy and ensuring a healthy baby after delivery. Will lifestyle changes help? Is IVF the answer?. Oral Contraceptive Pills (birth control) are the number one most prescribed medication to regulate…[Read more]

]]> db4ef563198c784c091f5cfd802ea42d https://www.intendedparentsforum.com/topic/i-wish-i-had-a-biological-child-2/#post-2076 Sat, 12 May 2018 15:26:10 +0000 If you’re suffering from infertility and thinking about researching national egg donor programs, the good news is, you have a lot of options available to you. Whichever option you choose, you’ll need to visit your local fertility clinic with your partner and participate in a pre-screening process, to discuss your medical history and your exp…[Read more]

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